@dr__oni: Things I wish I knew before I quit my job to start my practice and I bet these are similar if you’re leaving certainty to start something new. The fear doesn't leave before you start, it leaves because you started. "Steady paycheck" was costing me more than I realized; staying has a cost too, it's just quieter. Nobody warns you how much of owning a practice is admin and systems, not medicine. You will doubt yourself hard in the first six months, because building from nothing is disorienting even when it's working. Slow growth isn't failure, trust just takes longer to build than a business plan does. Encouragement isn't the same as guidance; I needed people who'd actually done it, not just people who loved me. My identity wobbled before it settled into doctor, business owner, decision-maker, all at once. The financial runway needs to be longer than you think. And yes, it costs you time with your family before it gives any back. That part is real, and worth naming, because some make it look like all sweetness and light. But here's the truth underneath all of it: it's still the best decision I've made. I'd do it again tomorrow. If you're standing on the edge of your own leap, keep going. Follow for more lessons from this serial starter-over. #startingover #nevertoolate #midlife #careeradvice
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Tuesday 22 September 2026 14:17:44 GMT
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Hema :
I have been a dentist for 20 years, now I want to become an interior designer.😩
2026-09-23 16:58:14
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Kiiza Dmk :
started my Masters at 39 graduated at 44 started my PhD at 45 hoping to complete by 48 and get married at 49!!
2026-09-23 10:28:11
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Roses 🌹 :
This is crazy—I’m almost 42 & told my mom last night that I’m tired of medical writing & wondering about going to med school. There’s a med university 25 min from my house. Just sent my only kiddo to college & feel like it’s time for my new chapter, too. 😳
2026-09-23 02:49:22
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Christian Bill Wanheda :
The comment section got me emotional seeing people realize it is not too late to start over
2026-09-23 16:25:37
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Palincia Swain :
I needed this. I want to go to law school
2026-09-22 17:15:23
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Luxurious Balloon Artistry 🎀 :
💞 Someone might need to hear this: You are afraid to take a 4 year course because you're 32, and by the time you're done you will be 36. In 4 years time, whether you take the course or not you will still be 36.
2026-09-23 16:01:51
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ashariaceandme :
I love it👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾…. I’m on my law degree journey at the big age of 58! This is after retiring from a 30 yr government career!!! 🤞🏾
2026-09-23 02:52:47
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Kay :
thank you for this...im 33 and feel like im running out of time
2026-09-23 17:32:08
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Becky ᥫ᭡ :
I needed to see this, cause I'm 27 and I've been feeling like I'm too late to even start college 🥺
2026-09-23 22:43:11
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Stecy’s Delicacies :
Oh my goodness, I want to be a state registered nurse someday in the Us🥰🙈 but I’m also scared it’s just a fantasy .
2026-09-23 20:22:18
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Simply Che 💋 :
Omg this made me so happy to see!! I am 36 and I want to go back to school. I love how people show different timelines. Second Acts are real! 🫶🏾
2026-09-23 03:33:24
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unknown🤍 :
This is what my fyp should show me inspiring❤️💐I keep doubting myself because of age but I know I got this 🌹🌹
2026-09-23 14:16:27
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Zee Cekwa :
im 40 and just started a degree in Information Technology sometimes i doubt if ill make it
2026-09-23 16:14:39
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M.o omotoyosi :
Hmm. I’m so scared, I’m 26 and in my final year nursing school, will be graduating as a Midwife. I really want to go back to school and become a doctor but I’m so scared
2026-09-23 16:27:50
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Hereforthecomments :
Girl it’s NEVER too late! Love this for you! You will be great cuz you got something a lot of your co residents don’t - life experiences
2026-09-23 22:30:06
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Jade :
The time is gonna pass anyway. Might as well do with it what you want. 🥰
2026-09-23 20:37:00
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Sanza🥂 :
I am going to uni at 32 and I have been self sabotaging but this has encouraged me.
2026-09-23 18:43:02
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stellamama_sm :
I will be 38 tomorrow,took a bold step to go back to school,got admission this month and am so excited about this new phase.There is no such thing as as too old or too late
2026-09-23 18:30:51
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yinkaunscripted :
Thanks for this video... Oh my God… I am almost 37 and have decided to go to Med School. Everyone is saying it's too late for that but I am not giving up.
2026-09-23 17:33:57
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RichandEd :
I went to nursing school at 55. Congrats!
2026-09-22 20:26:59
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queenbinti4ever :
I'm headed to carpentry school next year after being stay at home for the last 16 years and am 45.
2026-09-23 15:41:26
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@36.37 :
I'm turning 39 next month.im a physio,wanted to be a doctor but because of mathematics points i never qualified.im starting my mathematics classes this week to upgrade my maths score,after matriculating 20years ago,so that o can qualify to study mbchb.il be writing my exams next year so il start medicine degree at 41
2026-09-23 09:54:16
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Natalie :
am accountant....but am tired of counting peoples money, i wanna go to fashion design school and do Tailoring...next year will look for schools near me
2026-09-23 18:14:56
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Lindsay :
I am 42 and am considering nursing school, but worry that I’m too old now.
2026-09-23 01:26:27
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SKMESQ :
Go girl! Started law school at 38. At 53, I have a thriving practice in two different states. Much love!
2026-09-23 00:40:42
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