@therealniccoy: Demand avoidance: when your nervous system unionizes against your own to-do list. #demandavoidance #avoidant #nervoussystemregulation #traumahealing #therapy
demand avoidance is tightly linked to autism and adhd btw
2026-09-25 18:56:04
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Britta :
OMG finally someone put it in words!!! where the hell does it come from? (have ptsd, adhd)
2026-09-27 11:12:24
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balatonbaby :
Now imagine living w a lifepath 1 (my mom) who always gives me these commanda
2026-09-27 11:25:56
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Erica AF~♦️ :
“I deserve clean clothes” “ I deserve a clean body and home” gets more results than “I need to…”
2026-09-24 17:36:37
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charliex420 :
why do I want to do something so much more the more somebody dares me not to do "thing x" (bpd patient here thanks for your videos)
2026-09-27 11:53:02
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Lythik Noir 🏳️🌈🦇 :
I tell people "no", then do the thing. I don't know why it works for me, but it does.
2026-09-24 17:57:44
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Me in my head
2026-09-25 13:17:31
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Kyle Hendricksen :
I hate it when someone tells me to do something that's already on my to-do list. That task then goes to the bottom of my list because I don't want someone telling me what to do.
2026-09-25 12:59:13
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evienatast :
I struggle with sleep and I’ve asked people NEVER to comment on it. The second someone tells me I need to go to bed and get an early night it’s game over
2026-09-24 14:43:35
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Pallie Wale 🇿🇦🇨🇩🇵🇸 :
40 years. 40 years on earth and this is the first time im hearing this about myself
2026-09-25 16:05:45
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Iam :
I’m so stubborn I tell my own self no.
2026-09-27 08:07:05
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Selene :
I didn’t know it had a name
2026-09-25 04:30:07
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Cara 🌹📚 :
🤔 I thought it was my ADD
2026-09-26 12:24:05
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mima mouse :
this is why making to do lists makes things impossible for me. which is unfortunate because i like making lists.
2026-09-25 06:27:59
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user4059849299044 :
I’ve never felt more seen
2026-09-24 16:45:27
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Paula Patrick :
I thought I was crazy. This is a real thing!
2026-09-24 18:51:16
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LKelley :
Demand avoidance and breastfeeding was actual hell
2026-09-27 04:01:45
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LyannaErin :
ADHD pattern
2026-09-24 14:40:19
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Logan :
And im pretty sure it’s worse with ADHD and autism
2026-09-25 06:50:38
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euthanasia enthusiast :
hunger makes me so angry 😡😅
2026-09-26 19:30:51
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shinewes :
I’m my own worst enemy.😅
2026-09-26 19:43:18
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Hana ben youssef :
So how do we fix it ?
2026-09-25 19:02:41
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Yuu :
40 minutes? more like 3 hours 😭😭
2026-09-25 03:42:43
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Carrie Johnson :
“A threat to my autonomy” just made so much of my life make sense. Thank you bestie. 🫶🏻
2026-09-25 16:47:38
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