My passions are books and makeup, and I collect both! 😂 I remember the story behind every shade—the look I wanted, the moment that inspired the purchase—and I even keep photos, formulas, brands, and some of the beautiful packaging. As a Beauty Consultant, I consider it part of my education.
My best friend’s verdict after receiving a box of products: “You should be in jail. Your spending on beauty is criminal!”
You’re welcome!!! 😂
2026-09-29 17:40:39
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Erica C :
The problem as well is that SHE IS SPLURGING ON HERSELF, and not others, because she is expected to be selfless
2026-09-24 14:28:07
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Solrise Women’s Travel :
I run into this with the business I run. Dad goes on golf trips or hunting trips but mom feels too guilty, or it’s too expensive etc. to take the trip she really wants to go on.
2026-09-28 19:29:20
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Katie :
Bought myself a bmw m50 as a graduation present to myself after grad school. Oh and paid it off in 8 months……which here I am explaining. But for the cause……responsible, informed, planned and PAID FOR BY ME. And the comments I get……mostly from men…..😏
2026-09-22 23:46:05
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BucknDoe :
100% my husband has an expensive hobby that we both financially support...but let me get a package from amazon.....
2026-09-22 20:07:05
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Nuggettt :
Envy and jealousy. Certain people are envious that others (specifically women) have access to disposable income and luxuries they can’t afford.
2026-09-22 21:27:23
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Maria Conneway :
My husband shakes his head at my closet with 50* dresses. Most all bought from the sales rack at Macys. But because they are designer brands he thinks they are very expensive. Meanwhile we have 3. Yes 3 motorcycles in our garage. Do I ride motorcycles? No. Soooooo🤷♂️
2026-09-26 09:59:51
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Freedom2026 :
Absolutely no explanation needed. Let me say I’m divorced now and I’ve had my Mercedes delivered!! No permission asked!!
2026-09-22 22:43:25
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artsnthehouse :
in our house, and I’ve been married 34 years my husband absolutely cannot understand why if you have one handbag why do you need a second one he thinks it is horrible spending and if you’re not putting every penny into 401(k)’s and investing, driving a car to basically the wheels fall off of it. It has been a struggle our whole marriage because he thinks I spend horribly and I do spend small amounts a lot at thrift stores. I own two coach bags that I paid less than $20 for.
2026-09-22 22:49:24
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Poodie Pie :
Why would she need to ask for permission? I wouldn’t. I don’t.
2026-09-23 00:44:31
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NaomiBurtonTheBrush :
Not everything need to be practical to have value. brilliant. umm sorry I ask for forgiveness not permission.
2026-09-27 20:27:45
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Bobbi0619 :
why is it any of our business to begin? Perhaps it's time everyone just star minding our own business instead of sticking our noses into other peoples
2026-09-22 21:43:44
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rissyroodoodledoo :
We can just buy something because we like it and CAN!
2026-09-22 22:19:11
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Jennifer Cater :
I was just saying this this weekend when I bought myself Chanel boots and my family list their minds. I love bags, shoes, clothes- how is that different from people who collect guns, watches, etc?
2026-09-25 15:37:31
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LilithMotoRaven :
I feel so lucky not having to deal with some of this. we both spend money and are supportive of each other's hobbies and wants and desires. 🖤
2026-09-23 17:50:00
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Tracey Johnson❌🧽 :
Anytime my Boo says something to me about my purchase I remind him of his Browns season tickets every year [Snicker]
2026-09-23 16:22:25
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isabellasteigenberger :
That’s really unbelievable!
2026-09-22 19:16:53
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marlyn7760 :
the model of the wife who is self sacrificing and always supportive to others is so admired because it benefits others.
2026-09-22 21:00:45
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GIGI RN :
Preach
2026-09-22 20:18:54
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Aedwards41 :
For my 20 year work anniversary last year, my husband got me a beautiful $300 Bedstu bag because 1) it was my work anniversary and 2) I’d wanted one for years but we weren’t financially stable enenough for him to do that.
2026-09-22 21:08:41
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The Aileen Edit CarryOnRitual :
THIS - post a new handbag and then get DMs saying why are you wearing £5 lip gloss 😏
2026-09-22 19:38:53
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Akonyi-Qetsia :
Yupppp 🥲 I don’t get it either
2026-09-22 19:13:33
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Mary Claire Nolan :
honestly, even if you can't afford it and you're spending crazy money and going into debt... you do you, honey! do what makes you happy. we're on this rock for such a short time. enjoy it.
2026-09-23 01:22:06
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agatagiecstylist :
Can i ask you which lipstick do you use? Looks so good on you!🥰
2026-09-23 10:17:50
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organisedkate :
One of the rules in our relationship is we do not berate the other for purchases, as long as it’s something one of us actually really wants and we can raise the money. If I want a bag I can have it, he wants his flashy car I’m fine with it, we do not give each other grief for what the other one wants.
2026-09-23 08:41:25
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