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le$$ie :
As an avoidant, the fragility is soooo irritating like can you just pull it together so i can be honest n it doesn’t turn into a damn fight !
2026-09-25 15:34:00
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anna :
is this normal or do i need to break up with him asking for a friend
2026-09-24 01:56:58
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Esha Tye :
Avoidant’s are only like this when you’ve given your all and your partner doesn’t give it back or something broke that bond. Even if they fixed it once the avoidant has checked out there isn’t any coming back.
2026-09-24 16:20:54
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jersey :
oh.. im the problem
2026-09-24 12:52:16
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Mitchell Haines :
how tf did you just explain my whole 4 year relationship 😐
2026-09-23 04:38:30
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Johana Lucie :
Is this a play about me ???
2026-09-26 10:46:49
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Marilyn :
This is literally me word for word but I know that if I leave I might regret it he’s a great person but idk I didn’t talk to him for a couple of days and I felt great more motivated to do things but idk I feel guilty leaving him
2026-09-24 22:18:33
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josiah :
get out of my head lol
2026-09-23 23:34:25
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_simply.deja_ :
OH IT’S ME
2026-10-05 20:20:42
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laurad1183 :
I kept finding myself doing this and thinking it was my partner. Just recently I realized me thinking finding someone better or more compatible would fix the issue but even if that happened, the next person would still annoy me or I would find the incompatibility and I actually don’t want anyone else other than my partner and I’m happy with him and don’t want to go through this over and over again and it surprisingly has been helpful just to realize I can go through multiple people and they aren’t actually the problem. I am.
2026-09-25 21:22:17
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m a c k e n z i :
The emotional affairs actually sent me to the floor, why would you make that real
2026-09-29 17:35:40
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____gh_28 :
Exactly what happened to me, including the emotional cheating.
2026-09-26 05:48:27
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Spliff :
I literally just broke up with him and told him all this he immediately thought I wanted somebody else. I WANNA BE ALONE
2026-09-25 16:31:30
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Duncan4 :
Telling your truth always causes a fight.
2026-09-24 20:27:29
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E :
how did you get this footage of me
2026-09-24 18:33:00
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ev🥀 :
Oh ok so how do I fix this problem….
2026-09-24 23:25:08
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Mj 💗 :
Are you watching me??!?!
2026-09-25 08:57:17
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🤍 :
this is my exact situation, the worst part is i told him all of this and he just won’t break up with me because he is in love and i feel like it is my duty to love him…
2026-09-28 04:40:19
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nattielite21 :
My exact thought 4-6 months into relationships ugh
2026-09-24 12:12:12
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ImVrex :
Haven't seen an avoidant have a relationship longer than 3 months😭
2026-09-27 08:22:33
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Destini_GGG :
I feel so called out , who told you ?
2026-09-25 00:11:57
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Ellie :
as someone who USED to feel this way, a good friend, family member, or partner will be willing to hear your thoughts and work with you to understand them. its not that they don’t want love, your brain is programmed from bad experiences to not accept love freely. to question it thinking something bad will inevitably happen. its a pattern recognition that is carried onto new relationships, you can know someone is good and not ganna treat you bad but your brain is still trying to fight. me personally, i sat alone with myself for awhile pondering what triggered me, where that came from, and how to redirect and condition my mind to not fight so hard when it didn’t need to. build new mindsets and outlooks instead of just accepting the negative thoughts. and understanding uncomfortability does not mean something is wrong, just that its new and scary, but choosing to let fear take over was depriving myself of freely loving others and myself. i had to choose every time to be patient, and choose to think better FOR MYSELF.
2026-09-29 20:13:45
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Jewelz :
I’m an avoidant
2026-09-23 23:24:34
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NicciTheGemi :
Soooo.. i am the problem?
2026-09-24 20:12:37
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dedeisluxe :
I hate when I express myself and the first thing they say is “ I wish you told me sooner” I didn’t know I felt that way before, I’m telling you now so we are working thru it now why do I need to tell you something I haven’t even figured out yet
2026-09-27 12:52:25
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