@thepottymouthguru: The word boundary doesn’t automatically make something healthy. Sometimes control gets dressed up in really good therapy language. A demand becomes a “boundary.” Punishment becomes a “consequence.” Surveillance becomes “reassurance.” And your resistance to any of it becomes proof that you don’t respect boundaries. Healthy boundaries protect your agency. Coercive control progressively takes someone else’s agency away. And if you’re reading this thinking, oh fuck… some of this feels familiar, you don’t need to be certain it’s “bad enough” before talking to someone who understands abuse and coercive control. Canada: Government of Canada — Family Violence Helplines & Services | ShelterSafe — Find Support Near You United States: National Domestic Violence Hotline — call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or text START to 88788. United Kingdom: Women’s Aid — Support for Survivors | UK Government — Domestic Abuse Help & Helplines Elsewhere: HotPeachPages — International Domestic & Sexual Violence Services Directory If someone may be monitoring your phone, browser history, accounts, or location, consider looking for support from a safer device when possible. Women’s Aid and ShelterSafe specifically recommend safer-device precautions when monitoring may be occurring. ❤️🤟🏻🌿

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