@mackenzieherman: And after they left and “made sure”…they realized they wanted to come back. Be prepared #dismissiveavoidant #avoidantcycle #avoidance #attachmentstyle

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keepone2020
Lady Luck :
this is so true
2026-09-23 12:02:38
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enzobleuu
EnzoBleuu :
She broke up with me on august 4th and she left. Her dog’s birthday is on october 22 and i love that dog like she s mine. I really want to gift her something that i know she likes but i dont know if the timing wont be weird or to early. Should i do it ?
2026-09-23 08:42:16
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kylievixzadeh
Kylie :
they thought we'd always be there… we won't 💅
2026-09-22 23:32:00
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robert.golder5
Robert Golder :
Blocked after months of no contact
2026-09-23 10:01:19
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websi83
Firestorm_V2 :
na ... never come back.. its now 7 month.. my tiktok posts are clear and she see my hard sharp boundaries... to much schame and ego.. she never will come back again... 😎🫡
2026-09-22 20:03:41
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thejazreport
Jaz ✨ :
It literally smacked me in the face, then I became disgusted by the abandonment because I would’ve never treated them that way. That was the turning point, and I haven’t been the same since. I don’t play about loyalty.
2026-09-23 05:32:03
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rayzorsharpwit
razorsharpwit :
it did give me the ick. she had 2 months to show that she actually cared, wanted a friendship, etc. so, byeeeee. im dating other women now.
2026-09-23 02:13:32
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yosoysarandipia
✨Sarandipia✨ :
Thank you very much Mack. You empowered me to move on. Today is been one month and a few days since no contact. We silence each other on social media and we didn’t talk since the break up. Today I finally unfollow him, and delete his follow back. I just did everything in silence, just letting him go, and honestly I feel better. I still thinking he probably will come back but I think I don’t need that kind of relationship, even still loving him, I love myself more now ❤️‍🩹
2026-09-22 21:58:34
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amys.cohick
Amy S. Cohick :
Mine just married but confused why he still watches
2026-09-22 21:37:38
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jameysechrest
jameysechrest :
1 year cycle second time leaving. she reengaged her situationship that has been a point of contention. she did start therapy and has actually apologized for older things unrelated to this. im both proud and scared. I truly hope she is healing but its tough for me to trust after the situationship became a thing on the anniversary date. for my part I have a ton of things on my side of the street to fix and no idea how to really get to that point with her.
2026-09-22 21:57:00
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tunapuna_papi
𓅓Vîmz‼️❌🐉 :
my avoidant monkey branched on me again 2nd time in 7-8 years. we legit had no title for a year but still been doing stuff often even increased contact, support, intimacy, work the full works. she cut intimacy 6 weeks while still continue being around me and even asking for support bam sleeping with someone else. I went no contact just enough for my son.. 2 1/2 weeks now.. the past 9 days 8 she's tried to use him as an excuse to see or talk to me or be around me even one day looking stressed or overwhelmed. she's been acting off impulses from emotional dysregulation many times. she verbally created distance the past year but contradicted herself many times
2026-09-23 00:57:47
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lauu_oo
LaU7u :
she left me one year ago ... and since january we don't talk, I'm so worthy i couldn't take it anymore, but i loved that girl with my heart. Maybe one day we can have a mature conversation. You're videos helped me so so much during this past months. So thanks @Mack 💓
2026-09-22 20:54:55
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userxy733
fz03 :
my FA ex (girl) texted me: hey, I know you’re enjoying your peace and the time you can spend with yourself, and the last thing I want is to take that away from you or put you under pressure to reply to me. I thought for a long time about whether I should reach out here one more time or simply leave things as they are. I decided to write because there are some things on my heart that I want to tell you. I reached out because this here is very important to me and, above all, because you are very important to me. But I’m also aware that whatever happens next can’t come only from my side. I opened the door, but I can’t be the one who walks through it for both of us. I’ve thought a lot about what there was between us. I wish I had talked to you back then instead of running away. For my part, I want to apologize to you from the bottom of my heart. Despite everything that happened and despite everything that has changed, one thing has remained: you still have a special place in my heart. There are many things from my side that I wish you would understand, just as I would like to understand yours. I don’t know what you think about it or what you feel, but I also don’t want to imagine an answer from you; I’ve learned from that. At the same time, I also know that I can’t force anything that isn’t in my hands. I can be honest with you now and tell you what is in my heart, and everything else, is up to you. If at some point you want to talk to me, my door is open to you, Fatlind. Oh, and Fatlind, I hope you’re doing well and that BM is going well too. Even though I’m not there during those important moments to support you, I’m still proud of you. No matter what you decide or how it is written for us, I will always appreciate what we had and how much it meant to me, or how much you meant to me. The fact that everything is different between us now doesn’t change that for me. More than anything else, and the reason for this message, is that I want you to know that there is still so much love for you in my heart. I’ve said what I feel, what I wish for, and how much it means to me. For anything further, it takes two people. Love you very much, your Lona
2026-09-22 20:56:25
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iop33a33
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Does this also apply to the fearful-avoidant?
2026-09-22 20:38:44
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