@kimberly.lapaglia: Fearful avoidant attachment can make breakups especially confusing for both people. Attachment styles can shape how we experience closeness, distance, conflict, and separation in relationships. A fearful avoidant may deeply want connection while also needing distance when closeness becomes overwhelming, which can make staying friends feel like a way to keep the connection without the vulnerability of the relationship. If your fearful avoidant ex wants to stay friends, that doesn’t necessarily mean they want the relationship back—or that friendship is what’s best for you. Space after a breakup can give both people a chance to grieve, detach, understand what they actually want, and decide later whether a genuine friendship makes sense. #fearfulavoidant #attachmentstyles #attachmentstyle #anxiousattachmentstyles #avoidantattachment

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4guysfromdublin
modernrock :
I used to have piece of this, because of the rejection part. I will worry about the rejection coming. today, I am grounded in my identity so that fear is mostly gone. which means I can be a better partner
2026-09-24 11:04:11
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smulismuli77
smulismuli77 :
Mine asked friendship, I said no and gave 3 options. If you want me in your life it’s being boyfriend, fisncee or husband. Take it or leave it
2026-09-22 21:30:11
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sontwisted
Ralph Dejean❌️ G7 :
no friendship
2026-09-22 21:39:42
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palomarooo
Palomaroo🐩🐾 :
I could have done friendship, but I found out he lied about other women, nahhh you loss all access to me buddy. Your loss. blocked 🙅‍♀️
2026-09-22 21:50:11
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aarmslave
aarmslave :
idk if that's what shes doing. I think it was burnt out pursuer. I failed to understand her emotionally and she got tired of trying
2026-09-22 21:19:56
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asayiii
Asay7 :
Interesting because I once mentioned being friends and he looked at me like I was an alien.
2026-09-23 03:34:23
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terrythaler
Terry Thaler :
my ex avoidant who i normally obsess over messaged me the other day and i instantly thought ewww I don’t want to date her. 😆
2026-09-23 00:43:20
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backlogged_media
T_Hop :
She said "MAYBE we can be friends again after some time to think about things" then when i asked months later, she said she was "too vague and had no intention of staying friends with me "
2026-09-23 16:29:54
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ajr8358
ajr8358 :
First time he discarded I said yes to staying friends, second time he did it, I said no thank you I’m not sticking around. I had to uphold my boundaries and love myself.
2026-09-23 03:55:37
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henry302
Hank B :
My avoidant ex discarded me 4 years ago, I went full no contact, I'll stay that way in this lifetime, and any possible future one.
2026-09-23 01:40:40
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miguel.reyna503
Miguel Reyna :
Say not to friendship!!!!
2026-09-22 22:36:02
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louscarpaci
louscarpaci :
Block them
2026-09-23 07:04:33
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truthislove8
truthislove :
No
2026-09-24 22:02:02
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blynnwil66
Bobbi Lynn :
Nope
2026-09-23 11:22:22
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sickofthecorruption
Sickofthecorruption 💙 :
Don’t go and give the FA a break and put it on “We may have issues ourselves.” avoidance or selfish unaccountable, and deliberately rotten to people because they will not go heal and grow. They need to own their shit.
2026-09-23 16:42:51
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kevinbrown418
Kev B :
That makes it easier to use you as a source of validation. You’re not a person to these people - you’re an object to be used and discarded when they find a replacement or get bored with you. They literally do not care how you feel.
2026-09-22 22:44:11
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zerrrrrro2
Zero :
Say no to the poor offer and cut them off as they’ll use you
2026-09-23 14:05:46
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mfbwestonma
Scorpio girl :
Nope. Hard pass.
2026-09-22 22:30:19
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