@oglifeadvice: When a man sets the tone, she can feel it. Consistency. Communication. Effort. Presence. Leadership isn't control. It's creating a relationship where both people can thrive. What's your take? #relationships #dating #SelfImprovement #mindset
Once I have to lead ALL THE TIME.. I’m looking at you differently. I can’t be submissive or feminine anymore.. I run this shit baby.
2026-09-23 14:15:09
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Khalilah :
Unfortunately the problem is some men like to have a woman lead the relationship and they lead the finances.
2026-09-23 20:25:59
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Purpleunicornlady :
We got onto the cruise ship and this mf said “where do we go” I said “I don’t know how about you try to be a man and lead and figure it out yourself!”
2026-09-23 13:04:28
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Fearfully Made❤️ :
How do I send this to him without sending it to him..?
2026-09-23 05:05:18
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Black Vaseline :
Let’s take it further, some men do not think leadership includes household responsibilities. It’s not always about making plans. Sometimes leadership looks like initiating household responsibilities and chores as well
2026-09-23 10:34:49
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user6821350264196 :
No real men like this left.
2026-09-22 22:01:42
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A. Elle. H. :
They stopped making these kinda men in the 80s 😩
2026-09-23 19:55:39
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Kat :
most men do NOT have the capacity to allow the woman to be in her feminine. That doesn't mean she sits back and does nothing, she is a mirror and a multiplier, a giver of life and a carrier of wisdom and love. Women are not biologically designed to withhold stress, we know that this raises her cortisol levels and diminishes her health leading to poor health outcomes. Where are the men who are listening and leading instead of leaning on and confusing us? I thought they were supposed to be problem solvers. Never met one yet
2026-09-23 09:32:49
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LaQuanda Elizabeth 💕 :
Yea if im in Survival mode with you, im checking out. Bc I shouldn’t be in my masculine energy allll the time…
2026-09-23 20:40:52
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kimcunninghamrealtor :
Do these men exist?
2026-09-23 03:29:16
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knucklehead0119 :
Sometimes the man isn’t raised this way but the wife teaches him. There’s always potential.
2026-09-23 19:43:49
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Karrah Anne :
I agree 💯! However, this should probably be on his feed🤷♀️
2026-09-22 21:57:34
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dawn :
the number of times that I have said "if I have to do it all by myself, I might as well be by myself"!!! and now I am, and the dog sets the tone, LOL
2026-09-22 21:39:48
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Sarah Ray :
The type of man you described does not exist 😳
2026-09-22 21:50:22
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Marien Life :
we know, and they HATE that 🙄
2026-09-23 12:47:34
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Soo Pricey :
My undergrad is in leadership studies lol, a lot of these men are fed the idea that leadership means domination, control and no outside feedback.
2026-09-22 22:15:42
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It’s yall :
Am I toxic if I send this to him ?
2026-09-23 20:40:36
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Maya J 💅🏾🫧 :
Ok this my shit
2026-09-23 20:34:00
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Bee A.F 🇦🇬 :
I don’t think I ever had a man....
2026-09-23 03:26:26
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Jil_Hozen :
If you are wondering where its going or where the relationship is headed then its not going anywhere is the answer.
2026-09-23 18:00:03
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Tai Nelson :
The problem is, men and women have gotten comfortable with the woman leading the relationship
2026-09-23 16:38:25
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Lex :
The men I’ve been in relationships with never understood this. But they want to lead meanwhile asking me what I want to do 24/7 having to come up with the plans.
2026-09-23 18:03:10
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Pinky :
This man gets it
2026-09-23 13:19:13
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Dennise :
🤣🤣🤣 Men did NOT get this memo. I needed that laugh though. Thanks.
2026-09-22 22:05:37
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SAGGS71*💃Bando💯* :
Were are they? Too many men play games today !
2026-09-23 12:28:49
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