@its_danielleryan: What’s your take on this? Here’s mine: Helping kids learn to respect other people’s boundaries starts with respecting theirs. Even over the little things like a hug! #boundaries #familyconflict #skit #fictionalcharacters #parenthood

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lizbethangulo8
ᰔᩚ❦♥︎Gorillaz fan XD♥︎❦ᰔᩚ :
My cousin sa'd me because I didn't hug him..
2026-10-30 01:26:28
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heavendollyyx
ᥕ᥆ᥒһᥡ ۶ৎ :
I never kissed or hugged my elders, they always respected my Boundaries
2026-09-22 20:05:50
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owlsaremylove12
Mary Q :
I will never force my kids to hug family members they don’t want to! Consent is a big deal in our family and that’s the bare minimum
2026-11-05 14:17:13
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puglove745
💗Madoka💗 :
Most of my family told me I should always say yes even if I don’t want to because saying no is rude. Now I feel like I can’t even say no to anyone. Please if anyone ever has kids then tell them they’re allowed to say no.
2026-11-06 17:36:02
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thelittlestdude
LittleDude :
Teaching children that saying no to hugs or physical touch gets them in trouble, is the number one reason why children get abused and stay quiet. They got yelled at for setting boundaries and were forced to feel uncomfortable. So now they get use to being uncomfortable and think that’s just how it’s meant to be. Not letting kids say no leads to nothing but bad outcomes.
2026-09-22 22:22:08
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isaiahp0730
Isaiah Pinero :
Yeah, no contact
2026-09-22 20:07:22
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xxbailey_booxx
♡ 𝔅𝔞𝔦𝔩𝔢𝔶-𝔞𝔫a ♡ :
My pop would fake cry and say “you dont love me” and my nan would make us hug him(he was a pedo)
2026-11-04 08:59:23
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lucianaaquae
lucianaaquae :
"What, it's just a hug !" yeah so what do you make a big deal out of it ?
2026-10-18 07:04:04
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2dozencats
Sleepy dog :
My MIL told my 4 year old that she would be mean to him next time she saw him if he didn’t tell her he loved her over the phone.
2026-09-22 20:33:11
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allyscorner26
AllysCorner :
I was forced to hug and kiss people I didn’t want to. I hated it
2026-11-06 17:30:32
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xx_logan13
Logan Demetri :
The way “grandma” would be out of my house immediately and never welcome back..
2026-09-22 21:15:08
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harley_fxcking_quinn0
Harley Quinn :
I’m pregnant with my daughter Lilac right now and this is one of my biggest concerns of being a new Mother is not getting heard. And I’m not the one for confrontation, especially after my daughter is here but if she says no, it means no it’s her right to say it and I hope her elders understand that. (First Pregnancy too)
2026-09-23 03:33:50
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mama_jays_life94
Jeri :
Unfortunately this is my in laws to my 2 yr old whom they barely see (their choice)
2026-09-22 22:07:21
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coyote_trickster
Coyote_Trickster :
I had a *manager* like this 😳 she was stuck in grandma mode 24/7 and treated staff like this. I said absolutely not, reported that nonsense multiple times, and somehow she never got fired.
2026-09-22 22:13:52
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x_kira_shields_x
Kira :
I HATE the family guilt trips over this. family always demanded I give them hugs and kisses as they left, and often guilt tripped me, leaving me (undiagnosed ADHD autistic till 2 years ago) questioning if I did something wrong or if I wasn't loved by extended family. one aunt STILL does it, and I'm 25. and told her I don't like it. I don't even hug my mum that much unless I feel okay doing it. 😕 My cousin's kids, and my nephews, I ask if I could have a hug, often they're happy to. If they say no, I say okay that's your choice, and ask for a high five instead, which often they love to do. I don't ask for kisses, but if they offer a kiss themselves, I'll reciprocate and thank them. but I'd never force it. one nephew is nearly 15 months and his new thing is when you say come here or can I have a hug, he giggles and runs away instead, it makes me laugh 😂 but if they want to, they will, there's no pressure ❤️
2026-09-22 20:34:58
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morgamrm3z8
morgamrm3z8 :
yeah nooo. I'd be telling grandma she does not get to see my child again until she stops the emotional manipulation.
2026-09-22 22:43:36
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theylovetohatestacie
StacieBarbie :
No is no
2026-09-23 00:28:38
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ayork79
Angie :
I’m a grandma and this is a huge red flag! My grandkids don’t have to hug or kiss me and I would never resort to bribing this is crazy and I really pray you’re not really dealing with this type of behavior from any grandparent from either side. Just sad!
2026-09-22 22:23:46
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christidawn38
Chrissy🇨🇦 :
This irks me so much![Angry] I remember being really little like 4 or 5yrs old and everytime a certain neighbor came over, I was always forced to give him a hug and a long kiss!!! closed lips but still! I always tried to hide from him and mom would always find me and "HAD" to say hello!! [Angry][Angry][Angry] He was FKN CREEPY AND I FELT THE MOST WEIRDED OUT BY HIM!!! Told family I didn't like him and was always told "Oh he's just teasing! He's just joking around! And that I'm just fine!" Like it's nothing bad and to get over it!! KIDS KNOW WHAT THEY ARE FEELING AND THEIR BOUNDARIES!!! [Angry][Angry]
2026-09-22 21:11:14
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nixyy_29
꧁~🌟 NG P4SKO🎄~꧂ :
“Your so mean!” Then proceeds to take the child’s toy because they said no
2026-10-21 10:54:43
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fatimaza1997
fatimaza :
My grandma told me, when I was a kid “you dont love your grandma? I only ask for a kiss” but seriously, as a kid I hate kisses so much
2026-10-28 00:44:03
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greenavocado8765
Greenavocados🥑 :
It’s a skit it’s a skit it’s a skit
2026-09-23 17:43:02
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sophie1805_nbg
Lea 𝕊𝕠𝕡𝕙𝕚𝕖 :
me: "Ok there's the door. out. now"
2026-09-23 17:10:00
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pepilota_1
Pepilota :
"It's just a hug", so you can just move on, no?
2026-10-03 06:27:27
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chelsearachels
WITCHY 𖤐 :
My mom and dad were strict with relatives. If I didn’t want to hug, kiss, or interact then I didn’t have to. I’m a person and if the most I’m wanting to give at that moment is a wave then that’s what you’re getting.
2026-10-28 01:47:27
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