samsayed85 :
My current situation, they dated at a point, had an affair while she was married and her husband was also my partners friend. She went as far as 2 go 2 my partners uncle while she was married n told him she wants 2 have my partners baby (this was told 2 me twice by my partners mother n once by my partner). Despite their past I still was good her, took her as a friend n 2 months before her husband died I found out they were chatting behind my back, when I confronted her she apologies, admitted the conversations were inappropriate n they were wrong. She called me her best friend, said I was like a sister 2 her n wouldn't want 2 loose my friendship n she would block him immediately. I forgave her n moved forward, stood by her through her husband death. 2 months later when my partner n I where going through problems n he was staying at his mum's place, in less than a week she was there everyday, I knew something was off n I was right, I saw the messages, she was monitoring when he n I were online at the same time n questioning if it's because his chatting to me, messages asking if he loves her, messages getting mad when he was spending time with me. She went as far as 2 saying her dead husband's spirit is troubling her so that she could sleep over at his mum's house at night, this went on for just over a week. We worked things out, he came back n after the 2nd night of him been back she realized his not coming back to his mum's place n suddenly her husband's spirit stopped bothering her. When I told my partners mum about the messages I found she asked her about it n she denied it and his mum refused to believe it, n said she's known her from a little girl she's like family. It's over a year later n she keeps popping back every few months even though she's had 3 other relationships since, n my partners mum keep standing up for her n keeps her around saying too bad, she family we've known since a little girl, so I'm made out 2 b the liar, the outside. I've now learnt my place in his family, my feeling, the hurt, pain, anxiety, it means nothing to them, they don't care. Her latest boyfriend past a week ago, so I know it's just a matter of time.
2026-09-23 14:05:32