@monikahoyt.coach: What if the best thing you can do for your marriage right now is focus on yourself? When you're separated and they're not ready to engage, the instinct is to wait. To hover. To make yourself available for whenever they decide to come back. But here's what I've learned → unhooking your well-being from where they're at isn't abandoning the marriage. It's actually one of the healthiest things you can do. This means living for yourself. Not doing things you think would impress them. Doing things aligned with YOUR dreams, YOUR callings, YOUR life. Try this: Imagine yourself at the end of your life. What would you regret never experiencing? What would you be sad you didn't get to do? That answer? That's your direction. Comment MASTERCLASS to learn how to transform your marriage from the inside out. #marriagehelp #separationadvice #marriagetips #separation #marriageproblems