@parentingwithbec: Natural and logical consequences help children learn from their behaviour without using punishment or shame. A natural consequence happens as a direct result of a child’s actions without the parent creating it, such as feeling cold after refusing to wear a jumper. A logical consequence is a calm, related boundary set by the parent, such as leaving a shop when a child is throwing or hitting. Both can help children understand that their choices have consequences while feeling supported, respected and connected.

its_mia.420 :

I love the fact you asked for permission

Bianca Irene :

Said “shit”… oh no call the cops

Amy Field 🌸 :

Do you have any tips on navigating toddlers around pets? My 16 month old keeps grabbing our 2 dogs.. like grabbing fist fulls of their fur & yanking & then laughing when I raise my voice at him. I don’t raise my voice a lot so he just sees he is getting a reaction & thinks it’s funny. I have taken him away each time & told him no & that we have to be gentle. I’ve shown him how to pat the dogs nicely over & over but he keeps doing it. I keep them separate as much as I can & supervise him around them but he is so quick.. as he is still very young it’s not like I can explain to him why it’s wrong & it doesn’t help that the poor pups just take it they never growl at him or get upset in any way but I’m scared one day they will snap at him

Anna-Marie :

how would you deal with a 4 year old running off in the car park while you're trying to put your baby in the car seat? my 4 year old ran around the car, because she's just learned to open the door herself and was excited to do it but I turned around and she was gone and I got scared and yelled at her (which I know isn't good on my part) and she said she just wanted to open the door but I said she can't go by herself in the car park because a car could hit her. usually she climbs under baby's seat to her side while I put the baby in and then strap her up but this time she didn't

Maddy 🐛 :

I have interesting thoughts about her hearing you explain all this to tiktok. Its almost like a debrief. Here are the things she did, why it was not okay and the consequences. No anger, no emotion, just facts - and you gave her space to explain her feelings along the way.

Angela :

Why you telling tik tok 😂😂

madihuds :

Thank you for sharing this!! So important to have boundaries as well

Soph🤍 :

I love the way you make her talk about it out loud it’s a really good way to work through things

Sarah Jane :

You are a very loving and understanding Mother. You have amazing patience. Good job!!

jacki :

If everyone spoke to me like this I’d be a little less angry and a lot more understanding. You are just incredible

NeonBatgirl :

At least she's swearing in context 🤷‍♀️

🌻 :

school will be fun

amy01.c :

Oh she sounds like my Violet. Bless her 🫶🏻 good job mumma xx

ArohaBunni :

Love what you do Beck, you're amazing!!💜💜

🏳️‍⚧️apple🏳️‍⚧️ :

Love that you asked for permission

Lilly :

I think every parent wants to do this but it’s hard to help your child regulate when you don’t know how to do it urself. Do you teach on that? I wish I could articilate myself that way and be able to hold myself the way you do. How did you learn to do that? That’s what needs to be taught 🫶

Mystic-Fox19 :

4yo who has started crying when being told no all of a sudden and being unsafe with pets and her younger sister. im pulling my hair out trying to keep my cool. girlfriend please help me

stacey :

you are so calminf and I feel so relaxed when you speak and explain things. you really help me navigate new mum life. thank you x

Ataliya🎀 :

Sam Brazier-Lawrence :

Wish we could be friends

Mizzip26 :

she communicates like me $hit 😂

amelia :

😳😳😳