@thomathee: It’s not your fault

ALE🧊🤡 :

But if the responsibility isn't on me, then whose going to keep everything from falling into tiny pieces? If I force the blame on myself then we move past things faster and they don't have to care about it anymore

キアラ ૮ ․ ․ ྀིა :

damn ts hurt to listen to

Musclemuffin🖤💪🎀 :

Idek if this goes along either way this video but my mom gets sad when I say someone’s food was better than her so then I have to make it seem like hers was better 😔✊

Intense Darkness :

Everyday I get scolded by my grandparents when I doing my best with trying to build my own small business, taking care of a puppy, doing highschool and early college and working on myself to be better. I’m trying my best but it’s never seemed to be enough for them. But I’m happy with what I do

Crimson :

I think I needed to hear this… my parents have been fighting a lot and sometimes it’s because of me. My mom’s always upset, and I just want her to be prove, and be happy, not like she’s wasted her life with me.

♡ :

put ur videos on Facebook

Aries :

it's fine I'm the older daughter... I'm the retirement plan

Luciana Nicole ✨ :

You’re my best friend

Scarlet☀️ :

I wish I knew this before I destroyed myself trying to keep my family together.

Noor-ul Ain :

u didnt hold my hand. 😭

⦻Ash⁷ ⟭⟬ 💜🦋 :

....y is all I do on this app is get called out an cry....

$AG3 :

I grew up unintentionally learning to involuntarily change my emotions to match my mother's, because she had (and still has) no idea how to control her emotions. And I developed into coping with anger issues by violence because of my dad.

Rhian🎀 |mommy too Alana :

Ahhh the younger sibling affect. everyone else leaves and you deal with it alone. But you had the easier childhood 😂😂

🐐Addie🐐 :

I needed to hear this so much

Ella :

ive helped raise my younger siblings, my parents argued and my dad threatened to leave he didnt he was drunk and mad I cried and my mum needed someone to talk to bc she was stressed and we move alot bc of my dads job and my mum only has my aunt me and my grandma so when she's mad she vents to me, we speak pig Latin also known as egg language when were talking about my grandpa who lives with us. if something goes missing and my mum thinks its me ill say it was even when I know I didnt just so that my siblings don't get in trouble, I then get in trouble and I just apologise, then I shut off. I cant explain the shut off but I get a blank face and my emotion die and all thoughts do aswell, when I get a blank face when im being yelled at I get yelled at more for looking at her wrong

J a s m i n e 🌱 :

It is I. I am this child ✋🏽 the worst part is that it took me 22 years to make the choice to finally walk away because I felt for the longest time that it was my responsibility to be the parent my mother never was for me. (I am the happiest I've ever been since moving out)

Stephani :

you wanna talk to my parents?

𝔄𝔰𝔱𝔞𝔦𝔯𝔦𝔞♥︎ :

smart.

shelovest8 :

so that actually made me cry

Madds the baddie :

Parents really don’t understand boundaries and the parents saying that you have to do something just because there your parents doesn’t help anything

Fae🌿🌻 :

It wasnt my parents fault that life gave us a shitty hand. They worked 12 hour shifts(nights) for 5 years almost 6 (age 8-13). My older sisters did nothing at home. Didnt cook, didnt clean. didn't help with the bills. they wouldnt even take care of their owns kids properly. ( they are 9 & 10 years older than me btw) That somehow fell on me to help mum and dad. at 15 i started working full time and going to school just so we could have food on the table and keep a rough over our heads. all while my sister contributed nothing. I never graduated highschool because i couldnt keep working and going to school... im 24 and because of this i have no idea what im doing with my life. i feel like a failure even though i know im not. ive lived through shit i genuinely thought was gonna kill me. I still feel the weight of it everyday... I know my parents appreciate what ive done, i just wish they showed it more.

maddie :

I’m carrying so many burdens of my parents, and now i might lose my dad and im fucking terrified.

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🐈‍⬛ Shyla 🐈‍⬛ :

you know how to explain it perfectly thank you I didn't know how to word it you explained it perfect