@kiore.speaks: You can be attracted to a dynamic without choosing to build a relationship around it. Familiarity can explain attraction without having to decide your future. #kiorespeaks #differentlenses #relationships #dating #selfawareness
That’s why I get so irritated when fellow women tell me I just need to “train him right”. I’m nobody’s mother I’m not here to raise a adult man🤷🏻♀️
2026-09-23 12:11:03
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Mmaphuthi 💜🇿🇦💜 :
Life is not a Tyler Perry movie
2026-09-23 18:25:02
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Keri :
He thought I would argue and “fight” for our “love”…I said I don’t fuss nor did I grow up seeing parents/family argue. He did. I didn’t. So. It didn’t work.
2026-09-23 14:56:02
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Black Rose :
this is why I say that parents need to watch their relationships because they can unknowingly normalize toxic behavior
2026-09-23 05:37:26
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💕BlazeBanks💕 :
Lmaoo I remember once trying to express my feelings to a man and I was being so even toned, calm and really sweet and he was acting like he couldn’t understand wtf I was saying UNTIL I had to come out myself and cuss him out. It was like grabbing a dog by the back of the neck and telling them to sit down and I did not like it. why do I have to speak to you like I have 0 respect for you in order for you to grasp what I’m saying???
2026-09-23 14:33:11
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AliyahHoodoo :
It’s arrested development
2026-09-23 17:58:41
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R.I.L.E.Y :
We are adults. Let’s act accordingly!
2026-09-23 04:45:50
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sky :
I also don't like how they dont respect gentleness and kindness
2026-09-23 18:43:39
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whoevenareyou :
I definitely agree with unfamiliar. I’ll take it a step further and say that it feels profoundly boring to most. When toxicity is what we’re accustomed to, the gentle quietude of safety and stability gets confused for a lack of chemistry/romance. The push-pull, the fighting and making up, it all becomes confirmation of the other partner’s “specialness”. It’s honestly incredible.
2026-09-28 15:22:20
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nonam :
Also, as long as I’m alive, I will have goals outside of my relationship that will require brain power. Manipulation is a lot of mental work
2026-09-28 11:36:01
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Pinkaaalicious :
Seriously! I don’t want to play all these internet games to get a man to like me or treat me nice. If you can’t be right because you’re not genuinely a good person, leave me alone. I don’t want someone who’s going to be bad at communicating or can’t fix issues.
2026-09-23 11:54:33
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kenz :
My parents have a bickering type relationship. They really do love each other and laugh a lot too, but my dad is a textbook ragebaiter. I’ve been purposely trying to adjust my attitude and tone down the “roasting” and ragebaiting in my own relationship, because WHYYYY am I being mean to this sweetie pie man????
2026-09-27 16:56:10
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Ke 💕 :
Whew and I’m trying SOOOO hard to change my ways/wants
2026-09-28 18:25:16
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iD33m :
Well said
2026-09-23 02:58:41
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Boujiebuddha :
THANK YOUUUUUUUUU !!!!!
2026-09-23 06:15:33
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Daph_ :
I’m sick of the ‘be mean to him’ thing. Like I personally find being an asshole exhausting for me. If I’m being mean then I’m in a bad mood. Why would I want to put myself in that headspace to keep some guy? Rubbish
2026-09-27 19:24:23
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zelda 🪽 :
It’s why I tell people to avoid those who constantly need to start something to feel something. They need a drama, a hurt, an explosion. They’re not inherently bad people, but your surroundings change you. Imagine raising a kid in that environment and continuing that cycle.
2026-09-23 17:48:33
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Green :
I am not about to act a fool after all the healing i have done. I'll not be doing that. i am leaving your ass
2026-09-24 01:45:29
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𐌁𐌔𐌌•Queen Renéssence 🏳️🌈 :
after my last relationship i realized how i was choosing partners based off the tolerance i had with my mother. safe to say dating is real slim now 😂
2026-09-23 13:49:07
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Ellah :
FINALLYYYYYYY !!! If I’m talking to you crazy then I don’t even like you on the first place s
2026-09-23 18:45:24
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V E E :
Yes ! well said 🫶🏾
2026-09-23 04:38:10
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10🧜🏽♀️ :
I'm a No limit solider buttttt I don't wanna be
2026-09-24 00:54:38
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Its.NikiLiljohn :
I feel the same way.. I am not mean and I don’t want to change to get and keep a man.
2026-09-23 13:49:02
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yermomssexyrobloxbotty :
Tag the og creator plss
2026-09-23 14:24:38
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