i don’t get all these restrictions when the quran only forbids pre-martial intimacy/sex. that’s it. nothing about dating, meeting up, etc. being haram
2026-09-23 04:15:28
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Jane doe :
and they always assume being alone with that person means you are going to have intercourse. like genuinely what's up with their obsession with sex
2026-09-23 07:52:10
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Mary :
I will date before marriage idc
2026-09-23 07:39:06
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🐬☁️ :
the divorce lawyer has a family to feed too let them be naive
2026-09-23 03:59:26
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Duh :
They have gender segregated WEDDINGS like sorry are we not all family???
2026-09-23 16:01:07
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nada :
misogyny
2026-09-23 08:51:20
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ایمن🇵🇰 :
Like why are we sexualizing normal interactions between humans I promise having a convo with the opposite gender won’t lead to sex
2026-09-24 00:26:00
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naba~ :
I've had this conversation with my mother. and all she has to say ab this is "marriage is a gamble that u lose 80% of the time"... is that supposed to be encouraging orrrr..? 😭😭
2026-09-23 06:13:55
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❤️☀️💚 :
I’ve genuinely heard ppl say that we should get to know each other and fall in love AFTER getting married…
2026-09-23 04:38:47
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Fati ✨ :
Acting like being alone with the opposite gender means yall will DEFINITELY be doing stuff
2026-09-23 03:39:21
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🇵🇸ميريام 🇵🇸 :
yeah no, like im muslim but I am absolutely going to know my future husband idk, thats just weird
2026-09-23 01:36:05
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bigfinehoe :
It's such a terrible feeling knowing that clowns like that zaynab girl have the privilege of living in the west and espousing these 7th century Arabian purity standards. 100 million girls from the east would trade places with her in a heartbeat
2026-09-23 16:00:49
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The fact you need to get to know them alone to know what they’re actually like
2026-09-23 01:33:53
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lorry harbet :
Then they’ll be surprised why they’re divorced after one year
2026-09-23 09:11:22
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agx_17 :
They’re out here getting married after barely knowing the guy for weeks or a couple months talking about “when you know you know”.
2026-09-30 08:19:43
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🧡leah.xoz🧡 :
I don’t want to marry someone that I have never been alone with…people because act different in front of people versus alone
2026-09-23 02:42:00
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amina :
gurl the only thing I havw seen through this extremism of "women men should NEVER interact" has just resulted in EXTREME hypersexual society. cz now that "talking" is taboo, making the other gender a taboo thing only good when in a marriage, it just reduces the respect amd genuine ability to see the human in the other. like now a "woman and a man" is just a taboo concept n not actually humans
2026-09-29 14:08:20
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shanjida :
at the end of the day, don’t let ANYONE dictate ur life, making a decision on ur life partner, ur wedding, and marriage.
2026-09-30 02:33:06
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Zero prospects :
Can religious people make a single argument without it being a straw man 💀
2026-09-23 04:43:06
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Warisha :
I‘m definetly dating before marriage, idc
2026-09-23 09:19:56
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K.🥭 :
They say that arrange marriages have the least divorce rates as if ppl cant get divorced because its taboo …
2026-09-23 09:43:45
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AA :
cause they believe men can’t function around us without thinking about lust… which is ironic cause that’s how they raise them by insisting that
2026-09-23 06:48:58
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Glass of water named Ariya :
Literally my parents didn’t meet UNTIL THE WEDDING????
2026-09-23 12:23:54
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soccerchic265 :
Dated my husband on the low both our families didn’t know for a loooong time just our friends. All my conservative friends judged me. He and I have been married for years now and those specific judgmental friends are divorced. Not saying my way is right but there’s definitely truth to what you’re saying.
2026-09-23 12:09:26
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irtgfwux :
in most communities where they actually do enforce this rule the families know EVERYTHING about each other and as much as possible. thankfully my parents aren’t as strict about this but for our family friends they ask everyone that the potential husband is associated with (friends, family, distant relatives even, etc) about him, have many discussions, etc. that’s not to say this is a foolproof method but divorce happens way more in the west where they do have the freedom to date, spouses switch up after marriage in every culture
2026-09-23 07:21:16
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