@momsfirst72: At 31, I thought moving back home meant I’d failed. Dad put my plate in the oven while I sat upstairs scrolling through messages, trying to put dates in order. When he texted, I expected him to ask how much longer I’d be. “You don’t have to have everything sorted out to come downstairs. You never did.” I saved the screenshot and a quick note in Documented. There would still be things to figure out tomorrow. Tonight, I went downstairs and ate dinner with my dad. #Divorce #StartingOver #Coparenting #MentalLoad #DocumentedApp