@leavingdoesntmeansafe: The most dangerous time for survivors is within the 1st year of leaving the relationship. The risk of lethality increases by 75%. Sometimes it’s safer to stay. Never tell your abuser about your plans to leave. Find a DV program who can safety plan with you and help you with resources. #dv #domesticabuseawareness #domesticviolenceawareness #survivor
I feel sorry for you I went through the same thing
2026-09-25 23:01:54
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that random person :
it makes me so sad to see so many comments of women who survived. there's too many of us.
2026-09-25 21:50:00
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christinagreen475 :
I know you're going through hell but you're alive. He didn't take that from you. My sister was not so lucky. She was leaving her ex and he stabbed her to death. Move away, change your name, get off social media, do whatever you can. Your life is more important than any job or place. You're in my thoughts girl.
2026-09-23 11:00:23
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-+animal hospital fans-+ :
Those women threatening you need to be prosecuted.
2026-09-23 10:38:20
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TheBlob :
Wait. So can we press charges against these girls? Most states sharing corn to do evil is illegal. Jesus Christ I am so sorry girl.
2026-09-23 06:25:06
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raerosetho :
This is what I mean, we can’t leave! 😭 It’s a trap 🪤 I’m so sorry this happened to you! ❤️🩹
2026-09-24 03:27:15
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Lauren Marie McCarthy :
Survivor to survivor , I’m so sorry 💜 who gives these men the fuxkingg audacity?!?!
2026-09-25 18:29:21
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Joanne Nathan :
You need to move permanently away from him. Get a restraining order against him. If he is in jail, the charges may warrant a criminal protection order. The guy is sick and your life is in danger. Be careful.
2026-09-25 00:38:01
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Wander Lust :
Hey lovely. I’m in Australia. If you ever need a break, come visit. Stay for a few months. No cost x
2026-09-25 20:44:13
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m_queen_802 :
I was prepared. He said we had to sell the house due because "i made him lose the house" because i started nursing school and he stopped paying for the house. He thought we were finding a place together. My mom an angel of a woman bought me a house behind his back so it wasn't in my name. She got me ADT security, and I lawyered up. I spent so long in hell thinking nobody would want to help or believe me. SOMEONE will help, just keep trying till you find someone
2026-09-23 12:21:46
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Lori C :
You have such incredible strength, your next chapter is going to be so much better , I pray for your emotional healing, I cannot imagine how you felt to have a man you loved do this must cut so deep
2026-09-24 03:33:18
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Felicia 🇨🇦 :
Listening to this on my ex’s birthday. He never got that physical with me but the scars he left on my psyche are just as deep. Big hug. 🫂
2026-09-25 18:22:02
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Sue :
Keep speaking out. I hear DV survivors say speaking out ended up helped them so much! Sending hugs and prayers in your healing journey.
2026-09-23 04:05:51
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Badasserycowgirl :
I am sorry no one deserves this. I hope you heal
2026-09-24 00:33:21
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🤘 :
My god I’m so sorry. You’ve suffered horrible trauma. Just know we are all in your corner. Much love and strength being sent you🤍
2026-09-23 10:24:30
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LCamp7 :
I think the comments from users “me” and “Kate” are ppl that know you or him?! 🤔 reason being is these are newer accounts with no followers/following/likes, are bare minimum. PLEASE don’t listen to the negative comments!! They are from uneducated ppl!! You SURVIVED!!! You FOUGHT for your life! And YOU won!!! I’m so proud of you!!! [Twin hearts][Twin hearts] I pray from here on out you are safe and he is unable to contact or locate you EVER again!!! [Twin hearts][Twin hearts]
2026-09-25 15:35:12
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pretty_blu_eyez :
As a DV survivor myself, I’m proud of you. And I also want to remind you to give yourself A LOT of grace. Healing isn’t linear and it has no timeline. There may be parts that never truly heal after such deeply traumatic events. Sending you love and light. 💕✨
2026-09-25 18:26:08
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fancyfembot :
I’m so sorry you had to endure this.
2026-09-24 00:53:41
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Thyteatofwisdom :
Him threatening to leak your intimate videos is also a crime. It’s revenge P*rn—what a cowardly, sick, and vile human being. I genuinely hope and pray that you get the justice you deserve and that everything goes well with your surgeries. I send so much love, light, and positive vibes to you, you’re stronger than you know.
2026-09-23 08:40:30
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Liz :
Oh honey, this breaks my heart. I was in a relationship with someone that had the signs of the control, isolation and glimpses of anger and violence. I am forever grateful I got out thanks to my family & friends (and him going to jail for something unrelated to me after we broke up) I hear stones like yours and I always think “that could have been me if we continued like we were” … I hope he gets everything coming to him & I hope you are able to mentally heal & have the beautiful life you deserve ❤️
2026-09-24 01:21:57
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Pam :
Do you have a good support system? Are you in therapy? I'm so glad he's been arrested so you feel somewhat safe right now. Have you told the detectives for the case about the videos/pics? They may be able to do something to assist...do not let those crazies bully you. I'm sending hugs for strength & healing and peace eventually. I'm so sorry this happened to you!
2026-09-23 05:59:03
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emmmmmmy :
I know you’re tired. I’ve been here where you’re standing. Down to the threat of intimate photos and videos. You just keep going forward. Bring proof of these threats to your lawyer and keep pushing. I know it’s impossible to even think about. You stay safe. Let them pick-me women think what they want. There’s no way anyone with a head on their shoulders doesn’t believe you. The trauma shows. You’re gorgeous. Keep your circle small and stay vigilant. ❤️
2026-09-23 03:53:54
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🌹KRYSTLE🌹 :
Oh my heart. I am so sorry, sweet girl. I was beat up for 8 years, but nothing like this. 😞😞😞I
2026-09-23 02:33:51
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brendaleahlow :
May God wrap his healing arms around you sweetheart ♥️🙏♥️
2026-09-23 06:39:25
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