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Shaina Jay :
Thank god some anxiously attached slander cuz why tf are yall so codependent???
2026-09-23 18:30:33
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Anissa ✪ :
I thank god for these TikToks cause its js showing me that i need to stop being like this and i need to see a psychiatrist asap
2026-09-23 18:38:01
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TiktoknAglock :
No bc regulating my emotions and yours is not my mf job!
2026-09-23 15:37:47
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k💋 :
heavy on the “won’t believe anyways” because at that point idk what to do for you😭😭
2026-09-23 16:03:46
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kisslandﾒ𝟶 :
People are mad in these comments because she called out anxious attachment, but when avoidant attachment gets called out some of y’all have no problem 😭 both can be unhealthy, why is one always treated like the victim
2026-09-23 16:24:40
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breebby :
oh ??? excuse me then
2026-09-24 00:38:49
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dessiee :
anxious attachment hate? whew im in the wrong crowd :(
2026-09-23 21:59:01
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ghostcore.png :
Then the nanosecond you choose not to deal with ts they’re online bitching ab other attachment styles like ohhh mg
2026-09-24 00:35:22
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⋆.ʚ 𓊆ྀིglitterpony𓊇ྀི ɞ.⋆ :
what annoys me is that they fully expect the world to stop for them and they will refuse to let the conversation go without you reassuring them over and over, yet when they upset you it’s rare that they will go out of their way to consider your feelings and coddle you, they instead just ask “are you mad at me” 10 times to confirm your emotions aren’t directed toward them so they feel better about it and don’t start another spiral session where you end up protecting/prioritizing their emotions yet again 💀
2026-09-23 17:46:56
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tuttbetweakin :
This is mean and accurate at the same time 😭😭
2026-09-23 13:57:19
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Ariasnothere :
people hating but theres a difference between you actively doing something to make them question it and you doing litterally nothing and them constantly needing it like oh my god leave me alone I tell you youre funny and pretty all the time
2026-09-23 12:11:24
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girlbiteme :
Waking up to missed calls and a single "Aight bet" text like ok
2026-09-23 18:21:38
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💫Princess Kay 💫 :
Yall are so weird. I’m an anxious attachment and I don’t act like this and regardless if it’s a chore to reassure and love your person, you don’t love them. Avoidants are worse
2026-09-23 22:18:45
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Keta | Fit Foodie :
Incoming anxiously attached people trying to justify why they are right and avoidants are wrong
2026-09-23 17:18:26
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polkadots413 :
I genuinely don’t understand why people think people want someone who CONSTANTLY needs reassurance
2026-09-23 16:35:00
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nova-caine ♡ :
Bro and they proving the point in the comments 😭
2026-09-23 16:23:29
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7\ :
As someone who used to be anxiously, attached and is now secure I can promise yall any version of unsecure attachment is very irritating to deal with 😭😭😭
2026-09-23 20:13:03
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𝐚𝐝𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞 .𖥔 ݁ ˖ִ🛸༄˖°. :
ok im sorry
2026-09-24 00:27:08
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m ⚢ :
when i'm having a bad morning and woke up to 9 messages
2026-09-23 14:52:22
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sydney 💋🖤 :
my mother anytime she asks "do I look okay?" "yes" "you're just saying that." WHY DID YOU FUCKING ASK THEN?!
2026-09-23 18:20:51
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👁🦴 🥩 :
Like yeah now I’m mad at you 😭
2026-09-23 17:20:26
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41mook0 :
Their narcissistic. They think your world revolves around them.
2026-09-23 21:35:32
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Hannah Wood :
But then you get called avoidant for not playing into it all the time
2026-09-23 22:43:56
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🐈⬛ :
this behavior is genuinely soooo annoying
2026-09-23 15:59:46
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NENE | BSHA 🎓❤️ :
Yes they love to slander avoidant when they are just so draining
2026-09-23 20:51:07
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