@monikahoyt.coach: The 5:1 ratio that determines whether your marriage survives 👇 For every ONE negative interaction, you need at least FIVE positive ones. Otherwise? You're on shaky ground. When you actively look for the positive, you expand your awareness of it. The negative stuff loses its power to make you want to throw in the towel. Start counting. Start noticing. Five to one. That's the minimum. #marriagetips #5to1 #marriageadvice #johngottman #gottman