@courtneytspain: if this video upsets you you may be a loser coparent 🤷🏼‍♀️ #highconflictcoparenting #coparentingadvice #hcbm #highconflictcoparenting

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miira.alfonso
mira alfonso :
you lost me with calling someone else mom
2026-10-11 08:23:34
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brynnie_13
Brynn | Twin Mom | Bonus Mom :
can you be our coparent? sincerely, a stepmom who has spent six years being the enemy simply for loving & taking care my stepsons
2026-10-09 16:00:57
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tanya.kylee
tanya.kylee :
I ask that to myself multiple times a week “isn’t she embarrassed”?? It’s wild.
2026-09-23 22:24:23
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temarabuel
Temara Buel :
Oh girl I could tell you some STORIESSSS about my husbands ex wife 😅
2026-11-05 19:04:24
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becca_garry
becca_garry :
Can you do classes do HCBM cause I am tireddddddd
2026-11-05 13:54:49
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hello.im.heather1
Wyattsmomm :
This all makes sense, except my 7 year old telling me he is FORCED to call his stepmom mom, and that he doesn’t want to do that. He gets put in time out and gets privileges taken away.
2026-11-05 21:24:24
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engineermama12
EngineerMama12 :
We call our mother in laws mom or our best friends mothers mom but when a woman steps in and actually parents a child she can’t be called mom? I’m in full agreement with you. If my babies feel safe enough to call another woman mom it means I’m doing my job, I’m secure in who I am, and if some other mama is stepping up to help raise my babies in such a wonderful way that they want to call her mom I’m happy for them that they get that love in their life.
2026-10-20 17:23:52
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katherinearch1
katherinearch :
Can you pls be my coparent?! I have an insecure on and it’s TIRING!
2026-10-02 18:21:10
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blueboybubby
Sally :
The latest thing was telling us kiddo didn’t have soccer practice when she absolutely did. She missed her first practice of the season bc her mom didn’t want dad to be the first parent to meet the coach
2026-09-25 17:50:18
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kdblawlady
kdblawlady :
My husband’s HCBM called and said my step daughter had strep throat the first weekend she was supposed to visit after our daughter’s birth. She was so jealous we had a newborn that she knew her daughter would fall in love with. She did not, in fact, have strep throat.
2026-09-25 02:23:44
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ashleighdyoung
Ashleigh Young :
I wish I had a bio mom like you.
2026-10-20 14:10:33
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taraleighsexton
Tara Leigh :
Girl i need this makeup lineup. Specificallly the under eyes and that powder brush 😍😍😍
2026-10-22 01:35:26
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thee.deadly.auntie
🐝 :
my daughter fractured part of her hand last week and got a hard cast. I asked her to save a space for her step sisters to sign it when they come so they dont feel left out. the other day she came home and I noticed her two step sisters names. I was like "why would you sign their names for them? thats kinda weird." she said "oh yeah... i dont know why I did that." and walked away. well the next day I picked her up early from school for an appointment and she broke down crying and told me the girls had signed her cast at the bus hub, but they told her shes wasn't allowed to tell us that theyre riding the bus because their mom told them their dad and I would be mad at her for them riding the bus. she was very upset that she had "lied" to (kept a secret from) me but felt like she had to to protect her sisters. its so upsetting that these issues are starting to affect my daughter, who mind you is also HIGH anxiety/depression autistic. its sad for all the kids, and it also just doesnt make sense that we would be upset about them riding the bus when both of my kids have the entire time theyve been going to school basically, like as long as they're getting to and from school safely we dont care how they get there.
2026-10-05 21:21:45
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irinalauren
irina lauren :
I am a bio mom and now also a step mom, and I’m so glad I didn’t make my sons fathers life miserable. He’s remarried and my son calls his step mom mama, and I am completely fine with it because she cares so much for him. While the husbands baby mama does everything she can to make his life miserable and as someone in the same situation I just genuinely don’t understand.
2026-10-10 13:43:12
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deeeyaarn
Deeeyaa :
Every video makes me love you more lol. Oh the stories I could tell you
2026-09-24 04:49:19
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alexismasalko
Alexis Masalko :
My husband adopted my son (he’s been in his life since he was 6 months old)… we asked mom to keep SD that day durring the day because it was in court during business hours *duh it’s the courts*- and HCBM literally threw a fit about us having the extra time. Mind you, we have residential custody of said child and 50/50 time for child’s sake to see mom….
2026-10-06 19:07:41
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hayes.taylor2
Hayes Taylor :
My husband ex always changes the times in the calendar for step daughters events so we will miss them or show up late 😭 luckily we can find out the times other ways but yikes
2026-09-23 20:24:23
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dibsbeauty
DIBSBEAUTY :
Gorgeous! 🩷
2026-10-22 21:05:16
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smashlee.13
Ashlee 🦆🖤 :
My stepson is supposed to call me by my government name according to his mom. He was 2 when I came into his life and he didn’t even know my name until she told him. So recently he wanted to take eggs back to his moms from our chickens and I put a whole dozen in my cute cartons with custom labels that has my nickname Duck on there. Which is what he calls me instead of Mom. He starts to take the label off and I asked why? He said, “Because if she sees this she is going to ask if I call you Duck!” 🤯🤯🤯 I was so mad that he felt so nervous about it!!
2026-10-06 19:08:23
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next_chapter_dad
Next Chapter Dad :
I’m a dad and step-dad…disagree with calling the step-parent a title that belongs to two people…really for the child’s sake. Recognizing boundaries and having respect…simplifying the process…I’d weigh those as important.
2026-10-27 20:14:39
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vanessasiatua
vanessa siatua :
I see the difference in children who have healthy coparenting vs the ones who don't... your child will be so thankful as he grows up that he has such a mature and secure mother!
2026-10-03 21:21:57
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carmenbriles
Carmen Briles-Westbrook :
My SDs teacher literally told us at parent teacher conference our kid was visibly sad because her mom wont let her call me mom too and it “makes her real mom sad”…
2026-10-08 19:00:03
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chelseamcdonnel3
chels :
Wish you were mine and my husbands coparent sooooo bad 😭
2026-09-24 22:12:48
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gonzalezlily26
gonzalezlily26 :
You ma’am, are mature & love your baby. ✨❤️
2026-09-26 00:01:04
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gingertabzz
gingertabzz :
My husband’s ex didn’t list him on any of the kindergarten paperwork. When they asked her in court why she didn’t do that, her response was “I thought he could just get the information himself.” She had moved an hour away and didn’t tell him what school he would be going to. They’ve had joint legal custody since they got divorced. The judge still said it’s in the child’s best interest to be with her primarily 🙄
2026-10-01 18:51:17
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