@vanessa.carterr: i asked 3 different men, no context about each other, what actually makes them go back to a woman they walked away from. i expected 3 different stories. i got the same core answer, worded differently every time. none of them said it was her effort, her apology, or anything she did to convince him. they all described the same shift, the moment she stopped feeling like someone he had to manage and started feeling like someone he missed on his own terms. that's the part almost no one explains correctly. chasing keeps a man in a defensive position, still protecting himself from pressure. the second the pressure disappears, so does the defense, and what's underneath it is what he actually feels, not what he's been avoiding. every one of them said some version of the same thing. she didn't come back to me. i came back to who she'd already become without me. ✅️ I explained the exact formula to get your ex back and make him chase you again, even in the worst circumstances, inside my e-book. Click the link in bio. #ineedspace #breakup #relationshiptruths #therapist #imbored

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evilqueencopycat
evilqueencopycat :
well what did they say ?
2026-09-24 15:43:35
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allaboutfitnesskc
All about fitness :
They only like the attention not the person
2026-09-23 22:07:59
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gomez.a28
gomez.a28 :
They only want you for the attention or because they feel alone and because they are not getting it anywhere else & so he knows you would keep taking him back because he knows you love him & so he would change for a little to make you believe that he actually wants you & and after he gets what he needed from you he would go back to his old ways and using the same excuses 🥺🥺
2026-09-24 12:32:08
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grumpymom8
🖤Shannon🖤 :
It’s not you specifically they miss. I’ve said it again and again. They miss the ego boost and how you made them feel. They circle back to see if they can get access again. It can be years gone by, they still try.
2026-09-25 14:45:14
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danielle.villela7
Danielle Villela :
he said its because I take care of him. not me as a person or my personality. its because I take care of him
2026-09-24 04:29:28
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_luvrgrl22
_luvrgrl22 :
mf said he loves the way I love him.
2026-09-25 16:49:42
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_jammo_
Jammo :
I miss the way she laughs, her smile, the tiny hum she made when she smiled, how she’d enjoy the little things. i could write a list, but i grew as a person too late and I lost her for it, so i’ll keep growing to become someone she’d be proud to love again, but until then I’ll just be happy that she’s happy.
2026-09-24 22:20:16
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bruh2135688
z :
Those type of men only love you as something to be owned. Like a car, pet or property. They don’t love you as a person and that’s why they go back. Find a person who loves you as a person and not as someone to own or to have
2026-09-25 01:40:07
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therealmrkieta
ThRealMrKieta :
because I love the way she loves. I love the way she smiles & how her eyes get all big when shes happy. Ill alway go back bcuz im scared one day she will need me to protect her but i wont be around so I try to stay close. I love her with all my soul not bcuz she takes care of me although she is the only one who knows how to correctly, but she is the most beautiful peaceful soul I've ever met & that shit balances me out. God made her for me.
2026-09-25 19:50:40
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802lane
Lane💫🕊️ :
That was my baby man… I’ll wait for her in every lifetime I could never love anyone the way I loved her if I told someone else I loved them I’d be a liar I found my soulmate and I want my sweet little princess back 😭
2026-09-25 22:29:50
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thebakitgirl88
TheBakitGirl✨ :
some regrets ,some they only care how you treat him.But at the end they will not really pursue ,they just testing if they can still get your attention
2026-09-24 06:50:29
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holi_its_mee
GV🫧 :
A guy i knew said he only misses the gifts but not the woman
2026-09-24 09:44:04
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bryylou
bryylou✊🏿🇺🇸 :
A ex of mines want to come back but I asked him why he said he missed me and that he feel so lonely. I blocked him. If you want me back because u are lonely then stay lonely
2026-09-25 13:50:33
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chelssqnhw3
chacha :
Sometimes they go back because the tried their other options and just don’t want to be alone. ESP narcissists. Stay safe out there
2026-09-24 21:12:55
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derah_o9
Derah :
They only do so when they miss your presence
2026-09-24 09:27:53
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_lambmorghini
_lambmorghini :
a man told me once, a man will always come back if he knows that he can, after that i stopped giving second chances.
2026-09-27 04:34:46
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piccolefeste
Maria Stella :
they come back because they didn't find something better for them, easy
2026-09-26 07:27:53
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zazawoo23
Zaza woo :
Do absolutely nothing
2026-09-24 12:31:45
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morado704
Fantasma :
Cause we’re the easy ones they know we will be there in a heartbeat they know we will answer that call
2026-09-25 01:25:57
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mizendowed200000
MiZendowed200000🇬🇧🇬🇧 :
We always judge men for wanting to come back because of what we did or do for them In the terms of caring. I want to say that both women stay with a man for something they gain from them, I haven’t seen a woman who is with a man for nothing or no gains. Then why are we blaming them
2026-09-24 17:27:42
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cautioned_ego
Tormented souls :
My ex told me there’s no one else I can talk about myself with 🙄
2026-09-24 10:09:03
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omg.its.mj
M.J. :
She’s quite literally my crown, I miss how she spoke to me how she treated me like I mattered and thought about me even when she had everything else going on in life and she prayed over me. I can’t ask for more as a man.
2026-09-25 14:37:46
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mike.jones1081
mike.jones1081 :
I don’t go back the windshield is bigger and than the rear view ….Its difficult starting over but it’s better than going backwards I truly understand GOD removes what is not for you some people are seasons and lessons if he separated us I keep it that way no hatred no hard feelings
2026-09-24 12:38:48
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cookieee_137
GREENDA GEAREDS :
I'm more safe to him hahaha
2026-09-24 07:32:46
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rattenchaos112
Rattenchaos112 :
It's all ridiculous.
2026-09-24 11:40:28
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