I was recently reading about 'hostility bias' types
2026-09-23 21:38:07
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SilkandSatin :
I had to cut her off
2026-09-23 20:23:47
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samuulaa :
Yup! Covert narcs in a nutshell 💯
2026-09-23 22:52:41
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woooooooowokkkkk :
lol my mil everybody
2026-09-25 15:20:43
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The Secret Life of Paris René :
I admit I have passive aggressive issues HOWEVER as I get older I need to assess relationships/friendships better before connecting and getting closer. The issue is that most people lack self awareness including those complaining about this topic at hand, some of us though acknowledge our flaws (very few of us I'd say). I never intend to ever become passive aggressive but people trigger it when they start offending/insulting me through inappropriate jokes or comments and then suddenly they unlock the passive aggressive side of me, of course I could not confront them or make them take accountability because as I mentioned most people even "the good ones" the ones that see themselves as "victims" are generally the ones creating the issue to begin with. As such, to avoid this defensiveness I now just need to be careful who I become close to and ensure my boundaries are clearly established early on in the friendship to hopefully avoid this nonsense.
2026-09-24 13:57:00
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CovertNarcissist, it is very dangerousbecause you cannot detect them instantly because they try soundcharming, if you not aware, they will drain you
2026-09-24 01:05:52
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Kween :
I’m glad I cut them off the most annoying person I ever met in my life. Turns out I was dealing with a covert narc. It took for them too move to another state for me to smoothly break off the friendship.
2026-09-24 00:41:49
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Ashley :
The only answer to that is to just get far away from them at the first sign don’t explain just get away from them that’s the only way to save yourself from the issues that you’re speaking about
2026-09-25 18:29:22
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Adieff ⚢ :
It’s really scary honestly and they build a lot of resentment towards you and can get very volatile
2026-09-24 20:25:19
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MtnMoment :
Truly the lack of self awareness is huge
2026-09-23 23:37:47
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annavandis :
How do you describe things so freaking well?
2026-09-23 22:18:26
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Lysie :
I just cut off that type of person as a friend this week. The relief I feel.
2026-09-25 09:57:19
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🪬 C :
Took me 7plus years with one of my good friends to realize how covertly narcissistic she was.
2026-09-24 12:00:03
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maddy :
everyday i pray this is not me like 😭
2026-09-24 13:50:41
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Ride :
i would not associate
2026-09-23 22:53:23
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Jessica :
Oh. no one has described my mom so well. Do my sister next
2026-09-24 22:58:35
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embbss3 :
My sister was this type, lol. I had to leave her alone, she was the type to walk around the grocery store and almost hit everyone with her cart because she would act like people were literally invisible , like she didn’t care at all. And that’s just one of the many things she did in public that was quite embarrassing
2026-09-24 17:43:56
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Xokuv4ny :
oh gosh ive just cut her also bc of this, like she would always ignore me or look at me in a mean way, like we are not kids anymore just grow up
2026-09-24 15:35:39
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SharanskyWailer :
I stopped being friends with someone like this and he didn't quite seem to grasp the obvious power dynamic and that constantly attempting to coach me while flaunting his wealth and privilege was going to backfire.
2026-09-24 06:14:23
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annabryant0396 :
Lack of self awareness is huge!! I have a friend who thinks nothing of venting to me about a particular person and I listen and I realize she’s just venting but a couple times she’s really lost her shit over it and then on the one particular occasion when I make a singular comment venting about the same particular person, she plays devils advocate, and takes the other person side. And acts like she’s the adjudicator of fairness and what’s right and wrong and I’m just like… What the actual f???
2026-09-23 21:32:28
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Ray :
And in they’re heads they’re doing better than me, you, her, him , them even though reality says otherwise. Theyre so quick to put everyone in theyre places but themselves and of course theyre victims when someone calls it out
2026-09-25 05:53:30
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User1063288635200112 :
Add in a huge ego and you’re doomed
2026-09-24 03:40:37
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toasterstrudelheirress :
They will never take accountability and they worm out of it with, “no, I wasn’t!”
2026-09-24 17:02:04
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Jacqui Pescosolido :
This is my mother in law fuuuuck
2026-09-25 17:31:04
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Erika :
Having an employee like this is exhausting because they're always the victim.
2026-09-25 10:42:58
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