Authentic_NurseNoahFNP
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AussieHussar :
the hardest part about being a man, specifically a blue collar man, is the knowledge that my body is going to break long before people are done relying on me.
2026-09-24 02:59:37
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evil lindsey :
my bf said the stigma from past generations that men should not cry or have emotions and should always be strong.
2026-09-23 22:50:03
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ImFine_EverythingIsFine 🇨🇦 :
Actually quote from my husband: “I have to get all the spiders”
2026-09-24 08:06:17
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Crimson Kitty :
I'm copy pasting my husband's fb response. that is the only social media he has and he rarely engages, and when he does it's usually on a surface level. So it's a big deal for him that he stepped into this ring. he said at first he didn't want to comment because he felt it wasnt his place, but he felt Noah created an environment that he could. 💫💫💫 The mental health of being a man(at least for me). There is and has been an expectation for us to be a certain way. We are all different and sometimes need some help and guidance. I was very much a believer that therapy wouldn't change me or provide me help. I was very wrong in this. We strain and press from the rigors of everyday concerns and inner conflicts. I didn't voice or know how to voice my inner processes, concerns, or feelings, as some of that was suppressed when we were growing up. "You have to...." or "you can't say" was something I was raised in. I found that after the sessions, I was better at expressing myself constructively and clearly with everyone. I also established boundaries for myself and understand others boundaries are not for me to cross unless absolutely necessary. I learned that is okay to say give me a minute while I phrase this properly, instead of just blasting out the first thing that comes across where it can be harmful. Look at both sides, your words can be as dangerous wielding a weapon around. It's okay to express your feelings with not just your family. But everyone around you in this world. I found my childlike love for things again and naturally smile. There are other things I can add, but the mental part for me has been the primary one. - Mr. Kitty 😺
2026-09-24 02:42:36
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Michael Hasting :
Having REAL conversations with other men, especially around emotion or deep topics. Conversations are almost always surface level. Having a wife that really pushes for the deep thoughts and conversations helps so much, but finding that same level of discussion outside of my relationship with my wife is very difficult.
2026-09-23 22:56:32
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Nathaniel Cook :
seeing the entire world celebrate women and feeling pushed aside and being told its my fault I'm being pushed aside
2026-09-23 23:01:05
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_angiefaerie_ :
My husbands answer: Dealing with the worlds expectations
2026-09-23 21:13:13
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BeckiBoomer3 :
I'm answering for mine, because he passed 4 years ago. But we had this discussion, and I remember what he said. "We're supposed to be and act like men, but when we do, it's "too much". Damned if we do, damned if we don't." I just looked at him, and then he said, "Not by you, Babygirl. Everyone else." I miss him every day.
2026-09-24 15:52:57
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HappyDad😊 :
Everything is on me, and I am expected to keep going with a smile, while being underappreciated, unseen, and without support!
2026-09-24 09:49:41
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LaneyMo4 :
My husband said “having to deal with your emotions once a month when you don’t even know why you’re upset.” 🙄
2026-09-23 22:16:33
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Kendra Mayfield :
Somebody like this so I come back…😂
2026-09-23 21:51:05
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thatguy :
traditional and modern expectations being pushed on us, simultaneously, while not being allowed to expect anything from women. we must be providers and display all the "manly" traits of yesteryears, while also taking on 50% of the domestic work that used to be pink jobs- but all the blue jobs are still ours too. at the same time, we're wrong to expect women to split bills 50-50 if they work, and also wrong to expect them to take on the stay at home spouse duties if they dont work.
2026-09-24 10:41:05
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Vanabanana61 :
I asked my boyfriend: People look at you like you are the next suspect of a crime and their children are the next victim, especially mothers … he had not solution
2026-09-23 22:19:10
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Ard Vark :
Invisibility, useless until proven valuable ..
2026-09-25 03:18:32
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Kyler Davis :
when someone tells you they want you to show emotion and be open with them, but then when you are they tell you, you cry too much "for a man"
2026-09-23 21:32:50
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jsean :
Trying to carry everything for everyone. Secondly struggling to accept help from others to set some of that burden down. The women may not “expect us” to do it all but we think they do. Now I’m off to read the comments in the other video. Thanks for promoting conversations like these.
2026-09-24 13:43:36
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Tonya Huggins Rush :
I asked my 22 year old pan feminist son (who appears very masculine when you look at him, has a very deep voice, and very few outwardly feminine traits). This is what he said to me: "I'm really not sure. I think it's having to kinda like code switch in a way, between being my normal self and acting more masculine/manly when talking with other men. While it is more socially acceptable to not be some super masculine manly man it's still kinda expected from most people, or really men, to be." (He does computer coding for fun if you cannot tell by the terms he uses.) Anyway.... I understand exactly what he is saying. Because we are here in west virginia, where everything is maga coded and we are blue dots in a very red state. We live in a state where they still call something gay as a way to put something down and use the r slur like it's just another word, and believe everything fox news and their orange king says. My biggest dream would be to live in a very liberal area.
2026-09-24 05:01:51
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user8625285526686 :
oh damn. I wish everyone understood a man's life. being "a man" means adjectives... not understanding. generations have made men feel this and today as well. Men are considered "weak" if they go to doctor, hospital, caring about themselves. plays on male ego and not ok. Men it is NOT WEAK to take care of self. I hate this entire stigma bc men suffer bc of this personna
2026-09-25 05:14:28
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freespirit575 :
My husband said “Dealing with other’s expectations of you”.
2026-09-24 00:01:01
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Heller73 :
my man says....feels like the weight of the world on him...keeping his family safe and protected, financially etc
2026-09-24 15:28:37
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lisaslittlelions :
the hardest part of being a man 😉🤣
2026-09-23 21:17:47
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NorthernOmen :
Vulnerability is a double edged sword. If we aren't vulnerable and open with expressing emotions outside of happy and angry, we are cold or mean. If we are vulnerable it sometimes gets weaponized against us and we are made fun of, eg getting called a girl. There is a double standard is society when we do things outside societal norms like getting our nails done. We need to do a better job raising our boys to express the full range of emotions and not make anyone feel lesser of a person for doing so. We need to teach boys respect and be examples of how to truly love a women by making her feel seen, heard and most importantly safe
2026-09-24 01:05:02
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⚫️ Thomas Yanuziello 🇨🇦 :
pressure from society and media to think and act masculine and degrade femininity. I feel like so much of who I am was shaped by it and I wonder who I would be if I grew up in an equal society
2026-09-24 03:05:23
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Gail Finn :
my bf said that the hardest part is being scared of not being able to always protect me when I go home to visit my family and go to the bar. I always reassure him im with my older brother and cousin and always safe (he has to stay home whrre we live now for work)
2026-09-23 23:03:18
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Aleksandra Pałka :
Im too early here. Call me later please
2026-09-23 21:14:44
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