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Elise B :
Permissive parenting is neglect and abuse too. Authoritarian is also abusive. Authoritative is the devs f middle ground and only answer
2026-09-23 22:01:54
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Kera Hollow :
I haaaate the "gentle parenting only works on gentle kids" kids become gentle BECAUSE of gentle parenting~
2026-09-24 00:39:17
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voyagersnaturecollective :
There’s also the weird concept that the type of parenting you try only “works” if it immediately creates a perfect robot child that listens the first time and never has negative feelings. Sometimes a behavior is age appropriate and self-extincting with development and *consistency* rather than you throwing every possible parenting tactic at the kid rapid fire.
2026-09-24 00:13:53
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⚓️ • summerchild • ⚓️ :
Omg this and all the comments are “this is why gentle parenting doesnt work” when its not gentle its permissive 😭 ive also seen a lot of videos where parents are like “how to i wean my 3yr old off their pacifier” like babes ur the parent take it put their mouth, let them cry for a bit and they will be fine its like they dont know that they are the ones in charge 😭🥀
2026-09-23 21:29:29
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It’s me Mario 🐻 :
A huge portion of our population does not have the emotional regulation to gentle parent. They don’t want to be abusive like their parents, but it takes patience and follow through to gentle parent while also managing your own emotions. And so a lot of people go too permissive, which obviously does not work, and then they completely lose themselves to emotional dysregulation, they fall into the habits that were modeled to them as children.
2026-09-23 23:18:38
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kayla :
and on the other side of this i hate when a video of someone permissive parenting goes viral and all the comments are like "this is why gentle parenting doesn't work" "these gentle parents are ruining society" like brother noooo😭
2026-09-23 22:13:44
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LaurenRima81 :
nothing irritates me more than these videos
2026-09-23 23:43:59
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Hi, It’s Lucee :
Watched a video of a mother like “no… don’t do that… stop doing that” in the most quiet boring voice and her toddler… obviously kept doing it so she screamed at the top of her lungs and threatened to knock him off his feet??? None of that was parenting come on
2026-09-24 06:42:37
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🍰🧁Strawberrii cakie🧁 🍰 :
It’s weaponised incompetence to justify & give them plausible deniability for when they inevitably turn to abuse.
2026-09-23 23:39:44
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LoriMandle :
THIS! People have absolutely no concept of authoritative parenting, it’s all either being passive or being aggressive
2026-09-23 21:34:34
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dirtyfail :
That genre could be referred to as boomer regression.
2026-09-24 05:05:48
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MrsFlamethrower :
they'll do some dumb ass shit like seeing a 2 year old climbing a cabinet and say "honey... sweetie... get downnnnn 😁💚...." like 3 times and instead of getting their dumbasses up and MOVING the kid and actually parenting they then just jump into SMACKING OR SCREAMING at the baby
2026-09-24 02:48:18
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ChaosMama🇨🇦 :
I also hate "Gentle parenting only works when their little. Wait till they get defiant and an attitude." Sir if you authoritative parent properly you don't get defiance or major attitude because you have built the foundation of mutual respect. You don't have a attitude with them and they won't have an attitude with you. Plus it's normal for a tween/teen to roll their eyes or groan and it is not defiant or disrespectful. It's them expressing displeasure which 100% of adults do. 🤣
2026-09-23 21:34:27
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hannah :
It’s really funny in those videos where people say gentle parenting doesn’t work, the ‘gentle parenting’ is just a parent telling the kid to put something down twice before giving up and screaming in their face. Like no, no I don’t think that’s quite right
2026-09-24 05:25:00
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k :
and this flip flopping between permissive and authoritarian just teaches the child that they have to behave a certain way just to receive any basic courtesy
2026-09-23 22:57:47
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allie :
or when they’ve basically abused their children up until this point and expect gentle parenting to work in a week
2026-09-23 22:21:42
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☄𝐀𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐬☆ :
my parents were like that, they would constantly change from permissive to abusive parenting. that's why I always end up in relationships with people with bpd
2026-09-24 05:36:20
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ben?🤨 :
Immediate follow THANK YOU and the amount of ppl calling screaming and shouting «real parenting or realistic parenting» are just simply ABUSERS
2026-09-24 05:04:19
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SwaddleMoon :
It's because a lot of these parents need serious therapy bc they never learned to regulate their own emotions. They think they can just reason with a child like an adult which leads to abuse. We need to understand that children should not be held to adult expectations.
2026-09-24 03:48:24
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Melanie :
All they know about gentle parenting is the "gentle" In the word 🙄
2026-09-24 02:19:49
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teefie :
as a true authoritative parent, i’m exhausted 24/7 but my kid is turning out right so that’s what matters. it’s not easy but it’s worth it
2026-09-23 22:55:55
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Sprite Mother 97 :
As a parent what frustrates me about this is that these kind of parents always think I’m being too hard on my kid, right up until they think I should be meaner. They have no ability to understand or appreciate the middle road i will just not be around them because the adults are a nightmare and it doesn’t yield good results in the children either
2026-09-23 23:25:23
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Haunting_Bluejay 🎮📚🇵🇸🎨 :
I had neighbours in this cycle where they just kinda gave up on the youngest: let him have everything he wanted (fast food every day, videogames, wouldn’t go to school)-would get frustrated when he obviously wanted stuff he couldn’t have so would take out their frustration and anger on him-kid would get super defiant and throw massive tantrums-give him what he wanted to calm him down. Rinse and repeat.
2026-09-23 23:30:03
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Lanie Laura ✨ :
“Gentle parenting only work on gentle kids” 🙄
2026-09-23 22:29:35
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Nanna :
Also, some parents expect immediate results, if you have always screamed at your child at anything wrong they did and one day, suddenly, you try to be more gentle they won't immediately get it you're trying to help. . my mom used to scream at me every time I forgot to do something, I've just realised last week that she has stopped doing it, now she leaves a note where I can see it to remind me (I started forgetting way less), but I still expect her to scream at me when I forget to do something and when she doesn't I just feel confused. . it takes time to break away from harmful habits, and it takes time for those hurt to trust that it won't happen again.
2026-09-24 00:14:51
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