they both want to be perceived as likeable, validated, and overall in a good light by people around them, but the methods determine People Pleasing or Narcissism
2026-09-24 17:16:50
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RANDY‼️ (COMMS OPEN) :
Im convinced people dont actually know what narcissism is and are convinced its just synonymous with “pure evil”.
2026-09-24 19:05:47
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Zwaaggot :
The coin is codependency
2026-09-24 18:02:18
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hystrangea!!🗡🎇 :
narcissists literally ARE people pleasers half the time do you guys even know what npd is😭😭
2026-09-24 22:03:14
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luciid :
I see the point but I also don’t see the point
2026-09-24 16:05:09
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MistyQuigley :
And honestly covert narcissism and people pleasing can look veryyyy similar
2026-09-24 15:10:49
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KAITY🍉 :
well no. a narcissist is someone with narcissistic personality disorder and a people pleaser is just someone who hates confrontation/has low self worth. i hate when yall do this and water terms down to mean smth different than they do
2026-09-25 04:29:35
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d4mnxdfo0l :
People pleasing can be narcissism. Everyone’s perspective and perception of narcissism is wrong and often reductive, based on stereo types
2026-09-24 23:54:22
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dilek :
i woke up twice today
2026-09-23 22:18:37
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cosmobyclaire📍NV/HEND stylist :
my mom calls it selfish selflessness 😭
2026-09-24 16:59:27
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Planck🪐 :
Many people pleasers fear rejection and abandonment and therefore act the way they do as to be accepted and loved. I do not think this is the same coin as narcissism at all. However, people pleasers who do it to look good, basically for their ego, could be on the same coin as narcissists.
2026-09-24 19:47:13
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Libby 𖤓 :
I’m a people pleaser and the most selfish person I know. I care so much about pleasing people that it’s unsustainable. I tend to love bomb then ghost. It’s a terrible thing and I hate that I do it.
2026-09-24 22:13:40
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spam nigiri :
except “exploitive” and “taking advantage of others” isn’t part of being a people pleaser 😭
2026-09-24 23:33:43
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x :
People pleasing usually evolves to secret animosity and i hate that fake a$$ kind people that hates who i am and what i do but doesn’t have the guts to say it to my face
2026-09-24 15:51:22
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kris :
And the people disagreeing don’t understand how emotionally damaging both sides are and how they can both ruin your relationships and life if you’re unwilling to change or heal.
2026-09-24 09:59:41
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killa :
so polar opposites like North and South. got it
2026-09-24 20:14:57
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𐙚°𝑩𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒂𝒅𝒐𝒏𝒏𝒂˚🩰 :
wait a minute
2026-09-24 22:59:59
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AnonNuRen :
well kinda. people pleasing happens because people have really little self worth which is the opposite of narcissism. one come from a need to try and feel seen as regular person and one wants control
2026-09-24 16:50:13
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rigs4296 :
People always tryna find ways to be woke😭 obviously people want to be liked and validated
2026-09-25 00:04:18
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april :
the worst thing about people pleasers is the fact that a lot of them will slowly build up resentment towards you for the things they do to please you. Then out of nowhere they snap. It’s like bro you could’ve just been yourself this whole time I didn’t ask you to act that way.
2026-09-25 00:57:16
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˙⋆✮˚str.shroomz`~ᨳଓ ՟ :
everyone is naturally narssitic and depressed (I'm aware depression doesn't have anything to do with narssism but just on the topic of what I'm about to say) it's natural but depending on what ppl have gone through or family genes it can turn into a diagnosis just how anxiety is, everyone has it but there's also a diagnosis for anxiety attacks or panics attacks. honestly idk if this has to do with the video but it's called a comment section for a reason
2026-09-24 23:11:26
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Sinnimon :
Yuh this is a dangerous take 😭 ur throwing around narcissism and people pleasing without important nuance and oversimplifying it. Both are not the same coin 😭 yall trying to use behavior similarities vs actual core issues.
2026-09-24 19:23:33
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ari :
nope try again
2026-09-24 00:37:25
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irem🤷🏽♀️ :
Both actually stem from a feeling of worthlessness, but while people pleasers try to establish their sense of worth by pleasing others, giving up their opinions and sometimes even parts of their identities, narcissists try to cover up their feelings of worthlessness with an excessive ego, achieving that by looking down on people who might possess the love they themselves may not receive.
If the people pleaser is the slave, the narcissist is God. But the truth is that both of them are only human
2026-09-24 20:58:50
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damla :
did you hear my covert narcissm i disguise as altruism -taylor swift/antihero
2026-09-24 09:54:18
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