@nickvallentino: Where’s my boring people at? #deconstruction #expastor #religioustrauma

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user1319289027721
Joey :
As an ex-catholic who tried christian churches for a bit: the energy you have in your video IS someone I would enjoy having a small convo with
2026-09-24 14:57:11
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pattty173
pattty173 :
😭😭 God bless you
2026-09-24 12:36:11
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dorris740
Dorris Mami :
Like seriously 😂😂 You look soo calm for a pastor
2026-09-24 14:18:54
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ruthkreap2
Ruth Kreap ✝️ :
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you are reminding me of one pastor that i want to realise that he shouldn't force himself to be an extrovert. he is nice when quit and calm, but he tries the opposite, and it's annoying
2026-09-24 15:15:54
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jqonair
jqonair :
The best cliche pastor phrase… “MY MAN!” 😂😆🤣
2026-09-24 12:50:05
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calhabig
Older…Unscripted :
As an expastor I was expected to be the extrovert. I hated it. Between services I would go hide in my office to be alone and recharge. The expectations were so oppressive
2026-09-24 00:40:12
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obssieaschale
obssieaschale :
Who broke you in the church? You sounded sad
2026-09-24 07:44:59
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manganeese43
lime_Squeezer :
Bonfire sounds fun
2026-09-24 10:04:45
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christensmith0708
Christen Smith :
Now I don’t leave my house😂
2026-09-24 14:04:00
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dabad1230
It’sMeDee :
Look at you…getting to know yourself and accepting yourself. [Heartwarming]
2026-09-24 14:21:49
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essie3504
Essie Kinjo :
Always smiling, 😘😘
2026-09-24 15:36:05
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altopatrao.gee
AltoPatrao Gee :
You and I Bro, I actually don't have any friends especially from the time I was devout. When folks see me who knew me during my devout years I know they cringe so hard inside😅 I was so annoying I'd hate myself if my future self met that old christian self.
2026-09-24 12:56:44
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syliva.fisher
Syliva Fisher :
welcome home my friend
2026-09-24 06:20:47
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_zzales
_zzales :
Just because that WAS you doesn't mean it wasn't you 😅 it just meant that you had a reason to put yourself in that position that you were passionate about. They call it "deconstruction" because it's not just about leaving the church. It's about rebuilding the entire foundation about who you are. Those habits, mannerisms, and your personality were ingrained deep, intentionally, by people who wanted you to conform. Imagine trying to change the foundation of your house but without tearing everything down. It's gonna be a big project and things aren't going to look the same when you're done. You might have to move, remove, or rebuild a couple walls that collapse. But that's ok bc you have the opportunity to decide what you want your new house to look like
2026-09-24 01:24:27
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_tigerlillie
_tigerlilly :
You can still go back to church as yourself this time you dont have to change. Dont allow the devil to take you out of the church please.
2026-09-24 08:19:31
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marlenesankar0
marlenesankar0 :
You dont need to be a Christian to pray...just you and God no church .no rules just a minute each day to say thank you God for today
2026-09-24 12:16:11
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user4799434476991
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Let me tell you that you have the most beautiful smile
2026-09-24 03:35:47
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maria.tiktopshop
maria.shop :
I left the church too and it took me a long time to be me.
2026-09-24 00:45:05
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zoraidaflores800
Zoraida :
You found yourself 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
2026-09-24 09:34:55
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estervanster
Ester Van Ster :
I left church, because I was tired of the pretend and and and slot of things. 😳
2026-09-24 05:30:27
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darrci4
darrci4 :
Good for you. 🫶🏼 enjoy your life
2026-09-24 14:04:19
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_zzales
_zzales :
Bro is it a problem if I just keep commenting on your videos? 😅 I don't want to be annoying but I always feel like I relate. I want to develop that skill of being able to put myself out there on the internet like you but honestly hell nah at the same time. Respect
2026-09-24 01:17:16
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queenofqueeens
✨The Book of Esa 🌙🧿🪬 :
Welcome to the other side.
2026-09-24 07:46:15
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worodaphine
Mary Daph :
you are like me, my personality didn't match
2026-09-24 07:41:03
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user667989994
Joyce🎀 :
satan the devil has nothing to offer. satan is boring
2026-09-24 05:49:46
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