@thevalerieadams: How insecure men will “test” you in early dating ⤵️ You won’t likely notice it the first time he does it or you may write it off as “ok that was a little weird” but it’s a pattern and patterns always repeat themselves. Insecure men are operating from needing lots of validation, reassurance, and wanting to be shown that you’re into him which is why he will test you. Men who are truly secure will feel confident in knowing you are interested in him by: 💎You saying yes to dates with him 💎You responding to his texts 💎You being receptive to his advances and wanting to spend time with you. Secure men don’t need you to “prove” yourself. They are willing to put themselves out there to pursue you, even if it means potentially facing rejection. He has built a strong inner security where he knows he can bounce back & will ultimately be ok if you don’t reciprocate the same desire he has. The best way to avoid getting caught up with men who are deeply insecure and have Anot done any inner work on themselves is for you to be the OPPOSITE of that The more self-assured, secure, and confident you get - the more easily you will draw in men who operate on the same frequency 💎✨ If you’re ready to upgrade your dating patterns from anxious to secure and learn how to date in a confident and empowered way you so you can attract a heathy relationship ⤵️ This is what I teach you inside of SECURELY CHOSEN ❤️ (join at the top of my profile page) . . . #dating #datingadvice #redflags #datingtips #datingadviceforwomen

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