@soulwinner21: understanding men and woman in marriage #marriage #single #Relationship #christiantiktok #

Bigman :

Some women are angels…only few men get to meet them..

Ezra di church boi :

Marriage and wife not a knife

Meddiez Creativity Media :

were you married before?

african_sureboy :

Pure truth the never want to accept

👑 King :

true talk

SOUL WINNER :

this is the raw truth

nnananwa1 :

will she learn?

The_enthusiast :

The second teaching is spot on. There are still men that love their wives after they have stayed with them in hard times and wives who honor them despite finances. But the first teaching is total nonsense,distorted scripture mixed with culture keeping women in bondage and away from Gods will. You were not born to serve a man. In covenant you submit yes, but it’s not your identity and especially not to a man who is not in Gods will. PLEASE. Jesus comes first in every believers life!

Yoroba_delta_geh :

Ma also speak biblical dt a man shud love his wife like Jesus loves d church. Meaning no matter wat d woman does in dis life he will always sty. Hoseas wife was cheating n he went back

Edwin Winston A :

Trueeee

Hon Janzi momo :

ladies will be like i can't be feeding a man

🦋🔥EMINENT 🔥🦋 :

Thank you

G-Core Learning :

amen 🙏🙏

Greatness :

Yoroba_delta_geh :

Also preach dt adultery is bad. Der is no where in d bible dt says men re polygamous in nature

SOUL WINNER :

yea o

Dm :

Amen

KIKS TRAVEL BIZ AND TOURISM :

so tbose women that did not get married

D_RYT_1 :

Kolomentality

🦋🔥EMINENT 🔥🦋 :

💯💯💯

Lawrence Awotu :

🙏🙏🙏

Tymless :

And Scripture does command submission but notice what comes first: “Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.” Ephesians 5:21 Then husbands are commanded: “Love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it.” Ephesians 5:25 That is not a licence for superiority. It is a command to sacrifice, serve and love. Even 1 Corinthians 7:4 makes marital authority reciprocal: “The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.” So why preach the woman's obligation while ignoring the man's? Why teach submission without teaching responsibility? Entitlement can make people preach superiority instead of respect for the man and love for the woman. A woman helping her husband when he is down does not make him less of a man and a man supporting his wife when she is weak does not make him less of a man either. We need to emancipate ourselves from mental slavery,not from God's Word, but from interpretations that turn God's Word into a tool for controlling people. The pulpit should produce healthier homes, not silent suffering. It should teach men that leadership carries responsibility and women that submission does not mean surrendering their humanity. We have seen too many painful stories of people suffering silently behind the walls of homes while being told to “submit” and endure. We must be careful. The Bible should never be used to silence someone who needs help. Marriage should have roles. It should have leadership. It should have submission. But it should also have love, honour, sacrifice, mutual respect and accountability. The pulpit should preach liberation, not suppression; responsibility, not entitlement; love, not mandatory slavery. Because a marriage is not about one person owning another.,It is about two people learning to carry one and both ultimately accountable to God.

Tymless :

FINALLY, WHAT WE LEARN GROWING UP MATTERS Sometimes, what we believe about marriage is shaped long before we ever get married. If someone grows up in a home where shouting, humiliation, fear and control are normal, they may grow up believing that this is simply what marriage looks like. If a person's confidence was constantly built around other people's approval, they may enter adulthood always feeling inadequate—always believing someone else must validate their worth. But when you grow up seeing respect, kindness, communication, affection and responsibility between two people, you begin to understand something beautiful about marriage. You understand that “the two shall become one” does not mean one person disappears and the other becomes the boss. Genesis 2:24 says: “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.” One flesh does not mean boss and slave. It means partnership. It means carrying one another. It means that when one falls, the other can help them up. It means that a husband can be strong enough to listen to his wife and a wife can be secure enough to support her husband. Ephesians 5:21 says: “Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.” And 1 Corinthians 13:4–5 reminds us that love is patient and kind; it does not dishonour others, it is not self-seeking, and it is not easily angered. That is the kind of love people should see when we talk about Christian marriage. Perhaps this is why we need to be careful about what we teach from the pulpit. Not everyone hearing a message about submission comes from the same home. Some are already carrying wounds. Some have spent years being told they are not good enough. Some have been taught that enduring mistreatment is the same as being a good Christian. And some may be quietly accepting what they should be questioning because someone with a microphone told them, “This is God's order.” We have a responsibility to do better.

Tymless :

THE PULPIT SHOULD PREACH LOVE, NOT MANDATORY SLAVERY One danger of selective preaching is taking one verse and building an entire doctrine of control around it. I recently heard a message saying that because the Bible says the woman was created for the man, a woman should not claim to have rights of her own because she belongs to the man. Yes, 1 Corinthians 11:8–9 says: “Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.” But let us read the whole passage. Just two verses later, Paul says: “Neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord.” 1 Corinthians 11:11 Then he says: “For as the woman is of the man, even so is the man also by the woman; but all things of God.” 1 Corinthians 11:12 If we teach the first part, we must not silence the second. Marriage is not supposed to be a competition over who has more rights. A man has his responsibilities. A woman has hers. And there will be seasons when one is strong and the other is struggling. When a man is down, should his wife not be able to stand beside him? When a woman is struggling, should her husband not carry her? Ecclesiastes 4:9–10 says: “Two are better than one… For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow.” That is partnership.