April ❦ :
All these comments are so sad. I wronged people and recently sent everyone of them apology letters explaining what was going through my head when i did what i did, and even though it was two years late, they all said they were happy i contacted them, appreciated the gesture no matter how late it came, and they all accepted my apology. Relationships mean growing alongside a person, and you will inevitably go through hardships. It does not mean you should give up. The journey to become a good person, a good friend, a good partner or a good family member is not easy, and it’s why we need a social circle. Somebody has to tell you when you mess up, that’s why communicating is essential. You cannot expect the person on the other side to be perfect when a relationship, at its core, is about bettering each other. Picture perfect friendships like you see in movies and shows are fictional. Real ones take time, effort and consideration. It doesn’t mean you should let yourself be walked all over, but it does mean this individualistic, “protect my peace” bs mentality has to go. Having boundaries doesn’t mean being defeatist
2026-09-25 01:08:50