I relate to this so much! It’s so weird because in all my dreams I’m still in middle school which was over a DECADE ago… the same bullies. And for some reason I’m just stuck there
2026-10-07 03:12:44
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superiorputhie :
I still ruminate over a bullying event that happened in 6th grade….im 25
2026-09-25 02:38:00
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HYPNOTICA :
I was ALWAYS expected to be the bigger person and my feelings and experience was never validated.
2026-10-07 01:20:10
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Makayla1021 :
I think it hits harder because the people who hurt us have the ability to move on and never really think about the things they’ve done and it’s frustrating to think that someone has the ability to hurt you in the worst ways possible and never lose sleep over it.
2026-10-06 16:10:11
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ShayQ :
and NO ONE around me understands this
2026-09-24 17:33:17
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Noexposing :
And now I’ve become my mother
2026-10-06 07:02:30
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Sangria :
Delayed processing is a b!tch. 😅
2026-09-24 23:24:09
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Ereshkigal-Themis🧞♀️🇿🇦 :
I just told ChatGpt to go take a hike. It's AI, It's my psychiatrist,psychologist, GP, Siblings, friends. You know what, this is why my cut off game is unmatched. I simply walk away.
2026-10-06 14:17:30
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📀 :
Yeah I got some older family members I’m cool with but deep down I’ll never fully trust/forgive them for things they said/did to me in childhood.
2026-09-24 23:59:59
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Yemz-Fat Loss & Strength Coach :
If it hurt and you didn’t get a true apology, it doesn’t go away!
2026-10-05 21:30:58
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thatgirlwizzz :
I JUST had this talk with a friend yesterday about how so many people use to genuinely gaslight me or do weird shit to me then follow up and say “idk it’s just funny to mess with you” BUT WHYYYYY????!!?
2026-09-24 22:31:44
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Jashara :
This why I sit with every emotion now and idc how dramatic I am
2026-09-25 09:19:59
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alfredoalvin_ :
The boundaries part in "The Peace You Keep Giving Away" by Claire Morgan helped me a lot I thought boundaries would push people away but I started realizing how much resentment I was building without them.
2026-09-26 21:49:59
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imthebratrose :
Get u a punching bag and let all that anger out. It workkssssss
2026-09-24 21:48:27
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𝕵 :
Forever getting re-pissed off when I think about things. Have never let anything go
2026-09-29 16:51:37
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oleanderblue :
What sucks is that the people who have delayed processing stuff and can’t feel as upset as they need to feel in the moment, are also the ones who suffer when others delay their efforts to confront THEM about misunderstandings and conflicts in the moment. We don’t process how we should feel immediately, but we struggle more if others don’t tell US how they feel immediately. The difference between us and them is that they HAVE the insight to have a conversation about our mistakes and transgressions with us immediately, they just choose not to. They have control over how early on they admit that there’s an issue; they have their cognizance and processing abilities intact. They just make a voluntary effort to not let us know, because a deceptive response becomes valid purely based on how they feel when we mess up. But we genuinely CAN’T let them know what they did wrong immediately.
2026-09-24 22:34:03
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mind your businesses 🍉 :
“You cry? I give you reasons to cry!”💀
2026-09-29 17:29:43
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XI.IRL :
I wasn’t even allowed to speak about it dude
2026-09-25 01:08:37
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Dumi :
I was bullying in high-school and always taught to be mature/ignore. literally the ONE TIME I stood up for myself, the teacher screaming at me and set out of class to just reiterate the same thing. I'm 25 now and still fucking hate him.
2026-09-30 19:42:32
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HEIRVU :
I didn’t have anyone to stand up for me and I was told to just get over it. Like NAH! Some people needed to get their ass kicked.
2026-09-25 13:19:07
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jaila :
i was the perfect target because of how reactionary i was. it didn’t matter what anybody did to me i was villainized for reacting😭 ppl knew how easily they could trigger me
2026-09-24 22:49:06
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Gabby :
I came to this realization when I left my parents house. It’s crazy what leaving a toxic home can do to do
2026-09-24 21:48:35
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truestee :
things feel worse than the day it happened
2026-09-29 21:52:33
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amy :
Was physically abused my moms boyfriend when I was 5 and my mom doesn’t remember when she cleaned up after him after he hit me, still on it and I’m 27 now
2026-09-25 16:32:11
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J.M :
I'm 18 just got to college every single crappy thing from all my 18 years of living has come at me full fricking force i have so much rage
2026-09-25 02:00:27
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