@therapytothepoint: Anxious attachment and avoidant attachment can look very different. One person needs reassurance while the other pulls away. If this feels familiar in your relationship, understanding the anxious-avoidant cycle can help you recognize how both attachment styles respond to emotional discomfort. #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachmentstyle #attachmentstyles #anxiousavoidant #attachmentissues
i have secure attachment style so i’m better than y’all
2026-09-25 03:56:15
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Hyun🌻 :
Yeap I have to think about something till I am sick of it. If I try to stop thinking about it I get sick and panic. I have to try plan A-Z, look at million possibilities, worse all those possibilities have their own feelings. December and January ain't a good time for me. In New relationship I ask too many questions. I need prep/research for everything.
2026-10-30 19:10:02
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yuqi :
im an anxious attachment + i always think if they tell me i did something wrong that they hate me or that they dont like me and ill stay even if im getting manipulated or they are getting angry at me alot
2026-10-29 02:41:24
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Artiomka :
As an avoidant you'll feel discomfort. As an anxious you'll feel the most agonizing form of emotional pain.
2026-09-24 23:47:18
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𝔗𝔞𝔩𝔦𝔢𝔰𝔦𝔫 :
I've got ADHD and avoidant attachment. I know it comes across as love bombing in the beginning, but it really is just trying to squeeze out as much dopamine as I can, like I would with any hobby. that being said, I know my attachment style, I have enough wounds from my autistic anxious attachment alcoholic of an ex wife, and I've decided that I'm better off being alone because I don't want to come across as love bombing, and I sure as hell don't want to be betrayed again for opening up
2026-09-25 00:46:10
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Rynette🦝❤️👑 :
and then there's me with both. I'm a disorganized attachment
2026-10-28 03:38:14
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birdbath1991 :
That’s a great shirt, where’s it from?
2026-09-25 02:47:13
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R :
I know a ton of people like that. Mostly because of my intelligence, which is very high, but what do you have to add? That’s a separation.
2026-09-25 04:53:35
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B :
My boyfriend and I 😳
2026-10-05 00:09:33
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KRIMSONkay :
I somehow managed to do both🤣🤣
2026-10-24 01:04:33
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solex379 :
me and my ex
2026-10-11 22:14:09
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Falkor & Castiel :
this discomfort can make it hard for people with these attachment styles to cope when they are struggling
2026-09-25 01:00:08
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H. Martinez, LCSW [PajaroAzul] :
Yes!!! This has been incredibly helpful to acknowledge & discuss in relationship. Understanding that the two have the same “enemy” & it isn’t one another.
2026-09-25 15:51:31
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Asabea Herself || Creator🤍💜 :
Hm
2026-09-25 01:07:15
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Philanji :
Thank you. I needed that ❤️
2026-09-25 21:13:27
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arya :
weird phrasing but yeah I'm aware
2026-09-25 01:10:45
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KODE :
......I have both
2026-09-25 03:41:22
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neutron :
first
2026-09-24 23:42:38
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Meld0yAfterb00b :
Me and my wife 💀
2026-09-24 23:41:48
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Tallvue :
The way people handle closeness can be so different.
2026-09-25 16:03:32
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prijh :
i just reframe it as selective 😭
2026-09-25 11:07:02
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Tiana :
Yeah this video is my sign to get off TikTok then 🥲
2026-10-02 15:39:26
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Cozy Divergent🧸 :
Yeah I’m gonna just log off 🙂
2026-10-03 15:30:20
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Brenna Lee :
stop talking about me!!
2026-10-04 04:58:00
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Doublegm :
communication and understanding very important
2026-10-19 16:09:39
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