@allthefeelstherapy: The Caleb Flynn trial has brought up a lot of conversations about affairs, betrayal, power, contempt, control, and relationship safety. As a couples therapist who specializes in affairs and betrayal, what stands out to me is not just what was happening in these relationships, but what these behaviors can tell us when we see them in our own lives. Some red flags tell you to look more closely at the pattern. Others are serious safety concerns all on their own. I’m going to break these down individually in this series. This content discusses testimony and allegations presented during an ongoing criminal trial. Flynn has pleaded not guilty. Educational content only. Not therapy or individualized advice. This content discusses general relationship research and may not apply to every relationship or situation. #couplestherapy #calebflynn #abuseawareness #emotionalabuse #betrayaltrauma

Alice | Couples Therapist
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suzyq8404
Suzannah Miller :
I grew up with Caleb, and I'm still shocked.
2026-09-25 23:18:12
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marybethg23
Mary Beth :
I don’t even believe Ashley had an affair
2026-09-25 00:35:24
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sharonelizabeth07
Sharon Elizabeth 07 :
they're BOTH red flags...it was she that brought up the burner phone and some other things
2026-10-10 17:31:51
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marimommyo3
The Vintage Wanderer :
Can you analyze the mistress’ behavior?
2026-09-25 15:38:56
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sarahwilson209
Sarah Wilson :
Top red flag - they talked about killing someone? 😂 I feel like that’s the top one 😂
2026-09-25 15:12:23
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angielatinacreator8
Angie | Latina Creator 🌹 :
Number one should be not to date married people to begin with
2026-09-24 20:48:51
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22y643
22y :
...so it's the mans sole fault again?
2026-09-25 03:09:17
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emd96mod
emd96mod :
This sounds exactly like my situation. My wife betrayed me for her boss. And her boss is a vindictive, manipulative sociopath
2026-10-07 16:45:41
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openinguptheconversation
Kim :
Is there a doc about this trial?
2026-10-05 12:29:08
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iamlorilivingston
Lori Livingston :
The more I see about this story.. the more I realize how much I could have been the wife in this story taken out in my relationship by a man who was doing all these things against me w/ a younger girl! I caught their msgs & got out!
2026-09-24 23:07:32
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jen_in_vegas
Jen in Vegas 🧿🦋 :
There are other red flags that don't necessarily fit into this case (that we know of), but honestly, if you're messing with a married man, you're also the 🚩
2026-09-25 15:52:51
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karenallb
user4368848353266 :
Agreed. Well done. As a therapist myself I do feel though that two things can be true at once. The mistress seems complicit in some ways to me. There is a quasi Leopold and Loeb vibe to me.. in other words I feel she became a manipulative participant as well and I wonder if, had his affair been with someone else, would Ashley not have ended up murdered.
2026-09-28 18:20:09
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ithad2bmel
Melissa :
Sounds just like my ex !
2026-09-28 14:14:53
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eliselamoureaux
Élise Lamoureaux :
This is such a good list
2026-09-24 22:00:51
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jai.jai9898
Jai Jai :
This is sounds EXACTLY like my ex husband before he tried to unalive me
2026-10-02 03:27:10
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boscoandgigi
Gigi :
Thank you so much. You make things crystal clear.
2026-09-25 00:19:02
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neko.oxic
Neko Oxic :
lets all pray for God to remove and expose and convict, evil men and women within the church and outside the church.
2026-09-25 11:52:21
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shewhoknowsfirst
☾✧ 𝘚𝘩𝘦 𝘞𝘩𝘰 𝘒𝘯𝘰𝘸𝘴 ✧☽ :
Stay safe everyone 💜
2026-10-04 22:53:45
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denisemidwestgal
denise :
and not defending her choices but at 20, compared to him, he's had considerably more life experience than her... and was a pastor she likely idolized she learned a huge lesson on this one (about married men) even if she went along with it i don't believe she ever thought he'd kill...think the hate talk was sadly how they bonded - blaming Ashley for their bad choices😳
2026-09-25 02:33:04
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hraven27
HRaven :
Then she flipped and became super controlling.
2026-09-24 22:36:58
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sofyschoice
Sofy's Choice :
this guy was gonna kill the mistress too if she ever tried to get away from him. she should count her lucky stars
2026-09-28 08:09:18
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user9639794323781
user9639794323781 :
Great points thank you
2026-09-25 01:56:10
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optimistasides
Asides :
The sustained, intentional, deception is what has been the most traumatic piece to overcome. It’s absolutely malicious!
2026-09-25 02:07:55
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allthefeelstherapy
Alice | Couples Therapist :
Which one stood out to you the most? 👀
2026-09-24 17:39:06
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mamamarcyg
Marcy 🗝️ :
He is so much like my ex…always getting obsessed with other women
2026-10-05 23:43:48
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