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Ann Shevenell :
you have just joined the club of women who have been fooled by a narcissist. You are not at fault! he sounds the classic narcissist. your only 6 days out sweetie, just get through 1 day at a time, 1 breath at a time. you can do this!. we are your TikTok family, and reach whenever you want. 🫂🙏🏻
2026-10-24 21:06:47
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Danielle Kelley :
I am a little over a month, just came out of my 7 year marriage to one and it’s definitely a roller coaster but I will never regret my decision to leave.
2026-10-24 20:12:15
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sondramedlin :
I so understand l can relate an l pray for you it is so hard to love someone an hate them also that how l feel
2026-10-25 00:29:56
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Jen Ludwig Henderson :
Did yours tell you you were a narcissist?? I actually started working with a psychologist because I thought I was a narcissist. …
2026-09-26 15:17:39
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narcissisticabuseisdv :
Babe.. you got this.. you’re out.. it’s hard af to realize everything was a lie.. EVERYTHING.. you have to remember that!! I’m so sorry girl.. my ex turned out to be a covert narc and filled us for 16 years.. just 2 years out.. I’m still grieving and healing. But trust me.. you will gain your life back and you’ll ask yourself how the fuck you dealt with it! I’m hear if you need a fucking friend!! Do now let his smear campaign make you believe it was you!
2026-10-24 05:21:39
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DestanyAFTERdarkness :
I am going through the same thing!! I left my husband in June, took ONLY my son and dog, and left town! I understand completely what you mean when you say “all these people” are going to think I’m the crazy one. I have came to realize, I don’t care what anyone thinks about me anymore!! If those people truly love and care for me, they will not believe what he is saying. Eventually his true colors will come out to everyone in his life…. One way or another. Good luck girl! You got this!!
2026-10-23 13:09:15
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Tricia M Daoust :
I need you to know right now that you are not alone I’m going to the exact situation girl I married this man. We built an amazing life together. He left me six days ago. This is day six he barely talks to me when he does. It’s very short he left me in this house completely by myself. This isn’t even my hometown. This is his hometown. I moved here to be with him, and he left me abandoned me. I’ve been in this house pasting for six days feel like I’m losing my mind so please feel free to reach out to me. I would love to support you.
2026-10-20 03:06:39
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Eva Arquette :
so sorry Hugs
2026-10-24 14:28:59
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Sandra Pineda :
Please listen to me: You are not ruined. You are waking up. Your love was real; their lies don’t make it any less real. Stop questioning yourself through the lens of their projections. They may rewrite the story, but you know the truth. Walking away now could save you decades of suffering. Choose yourself.surround yourself with people that support you. You can do this! Love you! 💛
2026-10-16 10:47:08
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Starlitedelite87⭐️ :
You grieve three deaths. The version of them. The version of you. The future you envisioned. I promise it gets better but it is hardest thing I’ve ever gone through 😢 sending you lots of love and light.
2026-09-25 08:49:43
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July 🌹🔥🌹 :
Listen to me please honey 20 years with a narcissist. I’m on year four I’m still healing whatever you do you say no contact. He’s going to return. You stick to no contact. He’s no good for you. Good luck. Remember, no contact. You’re going to have a good days you’re gonna have bad days. Remember again no contact. Be blessed. FYI that was the hardest part for me too to know it was all fake. 💪💪
2026-10-12 14:16:43
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sam-e_girl517 :
once you see the truth, you cannot I see it. it is so difficult to determine if someone is walking into the relationship with motives when you don't carry any yourself. I knew within a week of marriage something wasn't right but it took many years to know what I know now and what it was. it is very hard at first you can do this though, the crushing weight in your chest gets better.
2026-10-17 01:33:53
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CleverClicksByJeanne.com :
I’m two months out from going through the discard. It was my first experience with a narcissist. You are not alone. I still miss him and love him. And my home hurts me now too. He is a OTR truck driver with no home.
2026-10-10 07:47:40
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Letty :
Sweetheart you are doing sooo good! it will take a long time to heal but you will heal! Take each moment one breath at a time. im 282 days, 9 months and 9 days of no contact. STAY NO CONTACT no matter how hard it gets. My ex whi is a narcissist called me a narcissist, threatened to unalive me and its all on a recorded document and stalked me, and is in fact still stalking! Protect yourself however you have to!
2026-10-17 12:19:17
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Sasquatchgrl72 :
Hey I have been with one for 17 years. Don’t waste anymore time on this relationship. You will get through this I promise! You are young you will find someone who really loves you!! You will look back and think what was I doing with this sick f**k!
2026-10-17 05:16:02
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Moonlit.Mess :
You aren’t in love with him. You’re trauma bonded to him. Give it time. Be a ghost. Heal. I’m on day 40. You’ve got this. ♥️
2026-09-25 01:09:45
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Christi136 :
Been there. Trauma bonds hurt like hell. It doesn’t feel like it now but it will get better! Remember, they never change.
2026-10-18 02:02:08
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Babygirl2026! :
ME TOO I CANT GET MYSELF OUT OF THIS HOLE IM IN I DONT EVEN KNOW WHO I AM ANYMORE
2026-10-14 21:01:20
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Theboyfer :
SENDING YOU ALL THE LOVEEEE
2026-09-25 20:57:19
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Lydia Louise 🇩🇪🇮🇹 :
I know the pain I’m over a year out and hold out it does get better. Please go no contact.
2026-09-25 10:08:07
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lilianpazlainez :
We all have been there and have endured unimaginable pain and we will be with you in your healing journey, consider us your family. 494 since my escape which seemed impossible, but I did after 35 years of marriage. You will be ok
2026-09-25 02:10:03
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Manali :
****Hugs**** I totally feel your pain! I'm one month out and keep ruminating about the 6 years of my life I wasted with him. I know what you mean about living in a small town. We have dozens of mutual friends and relatives who all live near us and are gossiping about why this marriage fell apart. When you try to explain to people who don't understand narcissism, it's pointless because they think you're the crazy one since he blamed me for everything. The truth ALWAYS comes out though! You deserve so much better! Educated yourself about narcissism and keep the faith! One day at a time🙏
2026-09-24 23:52:39
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Tiffany :
please look up tiff der the coach for narcissistic abuse. We have an entire community. You are so beautiful. You deserve peace and to feel loved and safe.
2026-09-27 19:32:47
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Patricia nelson :
You got this yes you will rebuild don't worry,stay no contact I did it's hard but you know what it's better to have no contact, live lite be good to yourself from here on our,Girl you are reliving my story I'm just recovering and you can do this,God Bless WA STATE
2026-10-21 01:07:11
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Stroke Survivor :
hugs
2026-10-20 01:04:23
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