The Fairy Grief Mother
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Thursday 24 September 2026 17:48:48 GMT
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Clive :
I had my partner die of a massive heart attack 2 months ago I still can’t get over it! It’s gets harder!
2026-09-30 20:31:45
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cjd521 :
I miss my dad for who he was before he became poorly, but I wouldn't want my dad back how he was when he died as he had no life
2026-09-27 09:28:34
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Stephen :
It's your brain's way to process something so blooming difficult to understand, accept and process.. It's called coping rather than overthinking.. it's normal and definitely good to vocalise these thoughts.. take care of yourself
2026-09-24 18:16:32
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Pat Borrett :
I tell myself my hubby is at peace now no more pain no more looking out at the workshop he just finished before he wasn’t able to do anymore woodwork, the times he sat in his chair flicking through u tube and not watching anything. Waiting on him 24/7 until his last breathe. People say ‘oh but you wouldn’t want him back like that’…. But selfishly yep! I would ❤️❤️😞
2026-09-24 22:02:33
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Sarah_WTFisLife :
I do similar but for things like buying absolute shite online. I wouldn’t have done it because there would be an adult judging me, now free rein baby! 🙈😆
2026-09-24 19:15:17
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Charlene ✨️ Grief & Healing ✨️ :
I'm really struggling to see the good in anything at the moment, because no matter how good it might be, it's still not him, I'd swap it all to not be living with this grief, to be with him 😭 it all just feels fake, fake attempts at happiness
2026-09-24 22:27:57
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Amy1815 Hp Luverr :
I think this is such a taboo but shouldn’t be ❤️❤️❤️
2026-09-24 18:09:48
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N@t@lie :
I just had a micro version of this for the very first time - ordered a starter & chips as my dinner ... absolutely no way he would have that if he were here (eat normally,have a starter & main) It was fine. Nobody cared & I had exactly what I wanted. small brightside - no food policing ❤️
2026-09-24 19:48:05
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outlawKenny :
Please don’t beat yourself up about thinking this because your just trying to make sense of everything I’m sure he would be so proud of you for what you’ve done on your own and if him being unwell was stopping you from doing what you have done I’m sure he would have felt so guilty please take care 🙏❤️🤠
2026-09-24 19:30:22
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JustSteph :
We all do it.
2026-09-24 18:36:39
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peter :
i try that! i wouldn't have been to france and Switzerland and holland this year. but that cuddle everyday was better🥰
2026-09-25 11:49:09
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The Winning Widow :
I tell u the one time I thought this....his 40th!!! I was like, well at least I haven't got to wrack my brains with what to buy 😂😂😂😂 *whilst screaming that he wasnt alive to see his 40th* 😭🤪🤪🤪
2026-09-25 01:20:13
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Belle 🇬🇧 :
Every room now has a touch of pink 🤷🏻♀️I miss not being able to discuss stuff with him but choosing carpets, curtains etc is so much easier 🫣
2026-09-24 22:55:54
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Yvo-61 :
it’s perfectly ok to feel like that, lovely. I think we’ve all feel like that at times xx
2026-09-25 05:44:19
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Gods child :
It’s like the pros and cons but he is not ill and no pain bless you ✨
2026-09-24 18:39:19
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JustAHuman :
Yeah, I understand. For me it’s the guilt associated with the potential of being a better person. If I became a better person, why couldn’t I have it when she was alive? All in all, it’s a massive mindf*ck.
2026-09-24 19:29:52
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Natalie Mug :
Your brains way of coping xx
2026-09-25 06:22:50
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Priscilla de Moreno :
I do the same!!! My brain?? I don't know. 😭
2026-09-26 18:23:43
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Flossy1 ❌ :
Yep I can relate xx
2026-09-27 12:00:34
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Em Stroud :
hear you
2026-09-25 06:35:22
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Steven Jones :
your exactly right...ive done it so many times...i think it is the brains way of making it better...my wife would probably be on dialysis now...which is something she didnt want...and your also right id give everything for her to be here now....that bit in the middle...if you ever seen up...doug the dog when he says squirrel 🤣...sorry 😁 x
2026-09-24 18:25:53
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petersmith7182 :
understand completely.. I can do this to, but as you say would trade it all back in a heartbeat.
2026-09-24 19:00:06
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Roger over and out :
keep going forward sweetie..he will oways be looking out for for you with a smile
2026-09-25 07:22:03
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beef :
life finds the right moment for you to move on 😊
2026-09-27 05:58:43
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scot wicky :
i have done that especially when I was surprised when her life insurance paid out.
2026-09-24 22:12:31
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