@karinhaysbert: 👑 Healing doesn’t make you mean. It makes you unavailable for foolishness.🤷🏽‍♀️ . #HealingJourney #chooseyourself #MidlifeWomen #MidlifeReinvention #boundaries

Cookie_1983 :

Current situation and I feel like a savage and I F’kn love it here

Jane :

👏👏and everyone calls you mean bc you finally set boundaries, call ppl out and don’t tolerate BS

Vitality Sip Diaries :

Whew, this spoke to me. I’m finally learning to choose me too.🥰

frankieb.wav :

Them boundaries are HARD STOPS lmao

tawandramcleodX :

is that what's happening to me😂? gurl, everybody is looking at me crazy and talking mad crap. I'm no longer the Mickey in the Life commercial with family, associates (no tribal friends yet), and foes. #savingthis

Ladylewis2017 :

I stopped letting guilt and BS put a foot on my neck🙏🏽❤️

Carrie Mendibles :

Saying no without an explanation

Penny -Trauma Recovery Couch :

Yes, I stopped people Pleasing 🥰❤️.

onesym :

Agreed...well said!

Annie Gee :

I allowed myself to stop chasing anyone or anything that felt forced

wambui572 :

letting them get what they want 😏

Karla :

All the above is what I’m doing that you mentioned. Life is too short to have anything but peace.

Kristen :

I went to therapy and started studying theology because I came from a evangelical background. I’m a big ol problem in the family. [Innocent]

Ms. Renee💕 :

I start letting grown people be grown!! I let it go! Do you!!!!!

See Her Fly :

Well that explains it! God knew I needed this!

Boss Granny 16 :

This Part!!!!

Hilda Iris Chayt :

WORD

Karin Haysbert :

That’s just what growth looks like. 🙋🏽‍♀️

indieugood? :

vanillamilksobs :

Besides the point of the video, you’re stunning and the jewelry is BEAUTIFUL

Capgirl :

So THAT'SSSSSSS what's happening!!!!!!

romiquefreeman :

Yes

Shannon Bianchi :

being post menopause, this hits home. younger "me" was such a people pleaser. now, I'm all about my own happiness. everyone else can find theirs in their own way. I'm done.

RareBreed :

definitely

Ashley Christine (H.E.R.) 💋 :

Exactlyyyyyyy 🤏🏽