Colette my thoughts
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hidden.bunni23 :
The Socratic method can be a very useful thing, if you’re in a DEBATE. I would talk to him about the things I cared about and he’d ask the most asinine questions and make fallacious arguments, just so I’d get upset. They weaponize it, ON PURPOSE. “Boy humor” is just bullying the people around them and not giving af about it. The amount of men who will do something to get a reaction out of you because it’s “funny when you’re angry” makes me sick :/
2026-09-26 12:30:40
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OblinaHeals :
Why do so many men view their relationships as like a competition or something to win?
2026-09-27 19:23:37
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Gecko :
Sealioning ... type of trolling. asking "curious questions" in order to demand labour from others. its disingenuous trolling
2026-10-18 15:25:08
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absquatulatedBygones :
Once my ex asked what kind of bread I wanted for a sandwich and I said wheat. He asked why, and I said it's better for you and I don't really taste a huge difference. He said, "is it really better for you or is that just marketing?" And I said, "Well it has more fiber" and he said, "well how much more fiber?" and I said I didn't know, and he replied, "So you don't know whether it's better or not you're just going off feels." And I said, "you're welcome to look it up," and he said, "but we are talking about why you want this type of bread."
2026-10-15 06:23:29
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lolo :
Never date a debater. My ex was a champion debater and I’m still realizing shit he did to me 5 years later.
2026-09-27 16:40:03
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Annie 😊🙃🤪 :
I always lie and give “man” answers. “I don’t know” “what would you do” “I don’t care” “what if I slept with your brother?” “What if I slept with your best friend?” Just ask questions and laugh. Call your friends and put them on speaker and then let them ask him tons of questions too! I know their game. I play it better.
2026-09-25 22:23:02
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user1892663380748 :
This is why I am single. Most men don’t like me because I don’t tolerate crap. Ladies….please stop centering men. You come first in your life!
2026-09-25 15:44:27
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Laura 🆘 🇺🇸 :
This is why I no longer react to anything. I am completely stoic. It drives them crazy!!
2026-09-26 13:20:49
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LeePacesEyebrows :
If someone does this you aren't required to answer. You aren't required to be honest. You aren't required to take them seriously. You don't need to justify anything to them. It's funnier to question them back and then shut it down by telling them you are bored.
2026-09-25 18:45:47
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Ali_Reese :
I hate when men…
2026-09-27 01:59:13
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MJ aka MOMMIE :
It’s so crazy that they can be purposefully diabolical and do nothing nice
2026-09-25 10:07:06
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Ashes :
Grey rock. My husband did this. I stopped responding. It’s exhausting. He was exhausting. I used to think no one could be that damn dense!!! Turns out he was on purpose.
2026-10-12 23:56:02
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holdinghearts0 :
my favorite thing to do? immediately just ask them back, well what do you think? then cannot refuse to then mansplain for hours on end. I wait a few minutes until they really get going with it and it seems like they're really enjoying themselves and then I yawn and say I got to go, turn around and leave. they just stand there stunned. it's beautiful.
2026-10-27 09:58:34
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girlcanuck 🇨🇦🍉 :
my byline "you know everyone thought Socrates was an asshole right? that's why they made him kill himself." 🤣
2026-10-21 12:25:50
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just1morebook :
If a man ever says the words ‘devil’s advocate’ when you are sharing a lived experience, run!
2026-10-21 22:56:43
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Mills Lane :
Bro, I’ve already been to law school. No man will ever be using the Socratic method on me EVERRRRR. It’s the fastest way for me to tell that a guy believes he’s FAR smarter than he is in fact.
2026-09-28 20:17:47
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Chicker Babe :
I went on a date with an incel red pilled who tried this on me. My response? “You’re really crap at conversation hey. And that’s REALLY boring. BYE!” And left.
2026-10-17 12:38:21
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Sydney :
When my wife was dating her high school boyfriend, she overheard him and his friends openly talking about bread-crumbing. They were laughing about it and swapping ideas on it. They know exactly what they’re doing.
2026-09-28 17:06:04
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Mimi :
Someone starts that sh*t with me I switch off. Then they try to convince you you’re dumb because you won’t engage. Ah well, my loss.
2026-10-18 18:55:17
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francis_be :
between this, the devil’s advocates and those who never ask any questions, it’s bleak…
2026-10-16 11:12:43
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Mariana :
I do not respond to being questioned like that.
2026-09-26 20:01:21
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Just me :
It feels like being waterboarded. It’s emotional abuse. They will try to take a very simple discussion or argument and they will speak in circles to exhaust you. It’s torture.
2026-09-26 03:15:51
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Amber Hopkins :
As a lawyer, is this how I find out I’ve been bullying men 😂
2026-09-26 17:20:30
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bookdragon805 🎀🫶 :
When he was dr*nk my then husband would admit that he did it on purpose so I would stop suggesting things or offering my opinion. Now EX husband.
2026-09-25 19:02:11
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crudeboreds :
agree but i do worry this dialogue unnecessarily demonizes the socratic method. what men are doing is not the “socratic method” it’s arguing in bad faith and them CALLING it that to feel superior. don’t let them feel superior. the socratic method a really helpful tool in teaching and research settings. don’t feed into anti-intellectualism
2026-09-29 17:35:25
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