Jess- Your Boundary Big Sister
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kimsherwood415 :
if everything was left to her, then I would write a new will and write him out of it !
2026-09-25 13:01:45
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brushsstrokes :
Cut off that grandkid
2026-11-08 19:24:39
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nsnskzj :
Write that grandchild out of the will . .
2026-11-10 12:33:40
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Suzanne Friery Owen :
This is a form of elder abuse (financial). Breaks my heart. I would definitely consult with an estate planning attorney as I’m pretty sure they’ve had this scenario happen and help guide her through with good advice that will not only help her legally., but with examples of how she can treat her current situation and possibly redo the Will to reflect the changes that she made under stress.
2026-09-25 14:55:13
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Emma Parkin :
She needs to make sure that it is written in her will with proof of the cheque clearing in his account at how much of his inheritance he has already had so that when the time comes he only gets the rest not the full amount. I would not give him anymore money neither xxxx
2026-09-25 13:01:08
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user8546894968632 :
Have a Lawyer write a letter defining inheritance and the condition of the will conditions will be read after death. If they have questions contact the law office but no further conversation will be discussed with client. Change the will to deduct grandchild’s funds asap! If the relationship dwindles so be it, continue to revise as needed.
2026-09-25 15:12:37
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Vacation*Junky :
This poor woman!! The statement next time bring the checkbook sounded like a threat.
2026-09-25 12:51:06
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froglady1232001 :
Re write your will and leave him nothing.
2026-09-25 14:56:10
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Laura Paine Roberts :
If she can afford it, go to a lawyer and make him/her the executor of HER will. All children/ grandchildren will have to go through the executor. Nip this in the bud. That grandchild wouldn’t go to another lunch with her again.
2026-09-25 14:36:16
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Carol Bell :
Get it changed he has nil nothing zero that is terrible spend spend spend go on a cruise
2026-09-25 12:57:57
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Gulliver :
Absolutely disgusting and so confrontational as a grieving spouse - shame on him and his parent. just no
2026-09-26 06:32:11
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Amma :
Get a lawyer, the audacity of the entitlement. OT should consider changing her will.
2026-09-25 18:20:41
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Apple User224267680 :
No don’t give him another dime! Kids should not expect that. If it happens when they pass that’s a nice thing to happen. You should be more concerned with your grandma not her money, how dare he!!! Very good advice, this is where u find out who really loves u. 😡
2026-09-26 02:39:14
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Rebecca :
I would go talk to the lawyer who wrote the will. Figure out what the exact inheritance guidelines are and then see if she can lower his amount for when she passes.
2026-10-26 15:24:12
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BrookeJ🐞☀️🦋 :
His $5k he already received would be his entire inheritance. He wouldn’t get another penny from me and his dad my stepson can kick rocks too he would be removed from the will and they can figure it out.
2026-09-26 17:21:29
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Sereda :
She has no idea how long she will live. She may need money to survive especially in this economy. The step-grandson thinks he is entitled now because bio grandfather passed. Seems she loves them all equally but he doesn't. Don't give out any more money.
2026-09-25 15:29:10
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Melman :
No this is financial abuse! Get them out of the will
2026-09-25 18:07:19
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sharktooth321 :
Oh hell no. I’d write them out
2026-09-25 14:01:36
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Jackie :
He can take himself to lunch… alone. That’s so unacceptable. I would have cancelled that first check.
2026-09-25 14:14:10
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kimsherwood415 :
my will would be changed immediately
2026-09-25 12:59:12
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Cheryl | Fit at 40 (something) :
inheritance isn't a given until the reading of the will. what if she needs her money for a nursing home?
2026-09-25 13:19:16
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Carol Kreft Keaveney :
Im POA for my brother. He had to go into an assisted living a year ago. Even though his will says his kids get his money when he's gone, there might not be any. She needs to think of herself. No guarantees of an inheritance.
2026-09-25 16:30:49
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Sparky :
Go to the attorney that wrote the will or trust and ask for a letter of direction that can be mailed to all the heirs with a specific explanation of how the trust or will was written. leave it at that. If the relationship is based on a check, it is too transactional.
2026-09-25 13:44:48
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Sweet Marie :
Absolutely not! I would decline the next offer of a lunch or meal. I would say to him your invitation is to get money and not because you want to see or spend time with me. This is disgusting behaviour. I would be clear. You got 5,000 dollars early.you are entitled to nothing till I am gone. You are still grieving and they are taking advantage of you
2026-09-25 13:12:51
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alana :
no. let them go. and make sure they get nothing when you pass
2026-09-25 14:20:27
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