Don’t invest in someone just because you really like them. Invest in someone who invests in you. ❤️
2026-09-25 17:39:30
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Atienootieno :
So, I'm just but fooling myself, thanks for this great advice
2026-09-30 08:42:45
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BBQR916Smokehouse :
I needed you 25 years ago. Twice 😭
2026-09-28 23:06:36
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aubba 🌈 ⚖️ :
"if the relarionship would fall apart the moment... you're honest... the only thing holding it together was YOU abandoning yourself" what a bar 💯
2026-09-25 21:08:31
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Scorpio warrior :
yeah and they use it as a taking an advantage to you
2026-09-30 10:18:49
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Windsmuse Studio :
People stopped meeting people and started shopping for people. Now everybody has a checklist, hide money, body career lifestyle, followers, aesthetic, and before you even learn somebody’s heart, you’re comparing them to another option. You haven’t even met yet. That’s the problem with having the illusion of unlimited choices. Nobody feels valuable because everybody feels replaceable and I’m not telling you to lower your standards have standards, but there’s a difference between standards and treating human beings like Amazon products because eventually you can become so obsessed with finding somebody who checks every box that you overlook somebody who would actually build a beautiful life with you and sometimes dating isn’t failing because there aren’t good people anymore. We just forgot people aren’t products.
2026-09-25 14:30:55
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Lauren 🇦🇺 :
apparently getting butterflies means your nervous system is going haywire because they're actually not good for you and your nervous system recognises that
2026-09-25 17:23:58
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Jessa Lynn 🦋 :
JIMMMMMYYY!!! This!!!! I've attended a live session of yours before, and this came at the most perfect time. the ending is chefs kiss 🤌🏼 last night I was waiting to meet with a guy... time goes by, and I start questioning myself.... an 1hr and 15 minutes later from our meeting time, he texts me "what are you up to?"...... like....sir. c'mon. I didn't reply. but this morning I cried my heart out because I'm sick and tired of giving my best when others don't meet me back for it. I'm done trying to shrink myself to meet others in their own comfort.....
2026-09-30 18:04:35
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khaleel :
i love this, and he just had a podcast with himself
2026-09-25 13:09:25
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Andrew C :
I was in a marriage for 13 years where I was only ever viewed as potential. As a byproduct she treated me as though I was not enough. I lost myself trying to appease her. Never again!
2026-09-26 12:37:36
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Dr. Melanie - Psychologist :
As a psychologist, I think a useful dating question is, “Who do I feel I have to become to keep this connection?” Notice if you’re hiding your needs, accepting repeated hurt, or waiting for someone’s potential to become their everyday behaviour. Alongside the chemistry, leave room to notice how you handle disagreements and whether your priorities fit. You’re allowed to enjoy someone and keep checking whether the relationship works for you, too. 🤍 I share more about people-pleasing, relationships, and self-trust on my page.
2026-09-28 00:29:17
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Bri :
Yes 🙌🏻
2026-09-25 21:45:32
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LVA :
As a therapist for 32 years Every Single Post you make are excellent 🤩
2026-09-25 17:39:13
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Lili Marlene :
I kept looking until I found a man who was prouder of my achievements than he was of his own.
2026-09-29 01:01:17
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J*Marie🎙️🎶💃🏼🙌🏼 :
100% Truth.
2026-09-25 23:20:54
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Keabetswe :
I finally left my boy,after 3 months of thinking...Im in pain but I'm relieved.
2026-09-28 13:00:22
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ᄊのイ丂んノりノ丂ノ_ᄊ :
"some investments go bankrupt".. Stop hoarding behaviour indeed!
2026-09-25 13:13:11
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Raw Dating Truths :
As a psychologist, I think a useful dating question is, “Who do I feel I have to become to keep this connection?” Notice if you’re hiding your needs, accepting repeated hurt, or waiting for someone’s potential to become their everyday behaviour. Alongside the chemistry, leave room to notice how you handle disagreements and whether your priorities fit. You’re allowed to enjoy someone and keep checking whether the relationship works for you, too. 🤍 I share more about people-pleasing, relationships, and self-trust on my page.
2026-09-28 16:15:23
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Rich | Stump Grinding Cheap :
Thank you for this video. My ex and I broke up three weeks ago because she was dating the idea of me. It happens
2026-09-25 14:18:51
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imjustkesha :
Yep. Chemistry is NOT a connection
2026-09-28 02:51:33
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Caroline :
Good advice ! 🙏
2026-09-28 10:04:49
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stopitjulie :
I have been apart of. And seen. Many relationships. I don’t think there is a reciprocal forever relationship.
2026-09-27 18:44:31
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amcvicker25 :
Oh how I wish you were single!
2026-09-28 00:55:05
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positively bleak :
thank you for the reminder ❤️🩹
2026-09-26 05:02:19
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Sarah :
thank you
2026-09-25 15:56:54
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