@jaylah.iman: Stop pouring from an empty cup !!! #fyp #maturingisrealizing

Dee🌸 :

I’m learning that now at 33. I’m so tired of being so nice and getting walked over.

Nia M. :

In my selfish era.

KTJ1984 :

Preach!

kkandess :

You right queen, you deadass right.

LightAura💫✨️ :

As an over giver I 100% agree because baby people are careless and demonic. As soon as you start putting you first, here come all the underhanded comments that they want to say with their chest, but CAN'T. Most people want you to be sympathetic towards their needs but be disrespectful towards yours [Perfect score]. Put you first 🙌🏽

Shanay :

You are so right and I’m so tired of being so nice to people who wouldn’t even give me the shirt off their back

Shanay✨Content Creator✨ :

Definitely learning it’s okay to Be selfish

Raw City :

Why do I talk to you and don’t talk to nobody else

Deb Shupp :

i’m 56 going on 57 just retired. girl you’re so right. i just know you had great parents ❤️

Kristina-Marie :

It’s me I need to hear this ♥️

Lita💕💕 :

Love the braids

Kei’s Delicate Secrets LLC :

I use to be the giver and showing love to everyone and then I seen how folks was taking advantage. Then I completely stopped.

SADGrrL 💔 :

I was real little when my siblings called me selfish for not doing ONE thing for them and that traumatized me… im still unlearning it… 💔💔

JasXO. :

She ain’t lien u got to that being nice get u nowhere I had to learn that now I have less friends n that’s perfectly fine

missexy80 :

I agree‼️

Heather :

Hope your day is amazing

✨🌹LATRICE🌹✨ :

THIS ‼️🎯😮‍💨

Captain save a ho3 :

It was me. Needed to hear it, thank you sis👏✨

Mbrace life :

because humans by nature will waste your time, suckin all your energy,

Kwawee :

Yassssss omg , I’m so selfish now

MamaVe ❣️✨️ :

babyyyy the skin is glowing ✨️

𝚊 𝚕 𝚎 𝚡 :

Been in my selfish era for the past 6 years

Sam :

I thought I wanted lots of friends in my life. Turns out I’m okay with a small circle. It’s exhausting trying to keep up. Also, I got tired of being there for people who weren’t there for me. So I cut them out

mquisejr :

RishaThVictoriousGodstyleBilal :

So true 💯