@ashnadvice: Understanding someone doesn’t mean giving them unlimited permission to hurt you #limit #understanding #tolerance

ikansapulidi :

empathy without boundaries is just self-destruction.

Vale Serna :

Wait why is The Forbidden Rules of Mind by Elio Korr criminally underrated?? Just finished it and I’m still thinking about it.

Richard :

Empathy without boundaries is just self abandonment dressed up as kindness

Tropicana :

I always respond "it's okay, not your fault or a big deal" then I ghost them into oblivion

carla :

so true x

E. :

same with my empathy. yes I'm empathetic and I understand where you're coming from, but that doesn't mean it's okay to treat me like that.

daianamarye :

True compassion also includes compassion for ourselves. Being kind does not mean tolerating everything. We can respect others while expecting the same respect in return. Healthy relationships are built on mutual understanding, honesty, respect, and boundaries.

ohits_lori :

Till the empath chooses himself unapologetically and suddenly he has changed lol

Amira Halilovic :

Exactly this! 👏🏻

.❀.• :

in fact, i have no tolerence because im understaning. anyway. i sgree

👑🤍مس لولو🤍🇬🇧 :

OMG thank you! 🤛

NetteWurzel :

But somehow that makes me the villain just for being a human and not a punching bag

Hasti :

being an understanding person doesn’t mean we should let people just walk all over us. We can be nice and understanding and still love ourselves enough to walk away when needed

Lilly :

Yup nope they take the empathy thinking you’re a doormat

A N G E L 💗 :

Lemme save thissssss

Noshin Tabassum :

EXACTLY!

Nonso 🧶 :

Is equally my first time to life too

TabbyTabs :

This is literally 💯

Jenn Marie :

Exactly

fallen angel :

aaliyah :

You explained it to a T

NR Eliza :

the biggest life lesson learnt ✌🏼

Chapter36 :

because you worth so much more..

lorenbrown9 :

Perfectly said

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