@styledbysurvival: Narcissistic men will really have you thinking you can “just co-parent peacefully” while simultaneously stalking, harassing, intimidating, or making you feel unsafe. 😭 Like babe… we are a little past the shared Google calendar stage. One of the hardest things about co-parenting after abuse is realizing that sometimes keeping the courts OUT of it simply isn’t a safe or realistic option. When someone continues patterns of control after separation, court orders, documentation, custody agreements, protective orders, and very clearly defined boundaries can become necessary. Not every co-parenting situation can be fixed by “communicating better.” Sometimes the safest version of co-parenting is extremely structured, extremely documented, and extremely boring. 😂 #NarcissisticMen #ThingsNarcissisticMenDo #NarcissisticAbuse #CoparentingWithANarcissist #PostSeparationAbuse
Renee | Styled By Survival ✦
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Friday 25 September 2026 17:38:22 GMT
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Jocelyn :
Mine snuck into my house and hid cameras and then acted like he just took the cameras to his parents house and wonders why I’m terrified of him. I was visiting my family out of state with the kids
2026-10-05 14:32:13
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Wendy McLeod728 :
Are you writing my life story?? You couldn't be more on point! 100% my life.
2026-10-03 22:47:35
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happyretiree :
Yup mine pulled that and then totally lied to the mediator. Plus he was stalking me while living with his AP. I already had a lawyer and when the mediator refused to work with us he had a full on temper tantrum
2026-10-03 23:12:00
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Leah - Max’s “Momma” :
Why are they so TEXTBOOK. Every single word!!!!
2026-09-25 20:07:55
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teawithauntjocy🇨🇦 :
I did that and he never paid a fucking dime for our daughter who is now 25
2026-10-04 19:54:04
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Courtney Gudbranson :
Gosh, all you had to do is everything I wanted. You’re just so hard to get along with 🤣
2026-10-04 00:41:51
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jaimeemannarino :
Mine used to still walk into my house unannounced because “his kids lived there and he had the right to”. When I changed the locks he gave me a hard time and cussed me out via text and everything.
2026-09-26 12:52:53
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HiLife :
My ex, who didn’t want a divorce but had to be first to file paperwork. 🙄
2026-09-25 18:54:49
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Kaiya Stuart :
spot on for my life currently. starting the court part now
2026-10-03 21:19:50
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888lureynalemondrop | TTS :
mine tried to take full custody cause i partied on the weekend when my daughter was with him 😂😂😂😂 it’s literally all control
2026-09-25 20:50:45
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Mother of Wilds :
Mine just said you really didn’t have to file a restraining order. You could have just called me 🤷♀️🤣
2026-09-25 18:47:24
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Tricia S :
They all really do and say the same exact things!!!! Insane
2026-09-26 02:18:40
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Azaria :
Do you know my ex husband? He doesn’t care about the kids. He wants to control me.
2026-09-25 20:54:51
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Youalreadyknow :
“I don’t want to go to court” turned into “when we go to court” real quick when I actually tried to set a boundary. Guess who acted shocked when I finally filed and called him on his bluff?
2026-09-26 16:44:25
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que sera sara :
i’ve literally become an apex predator in detecting NPD behavior and then neutralizing it in a court acceptable language
2026-09-25 19:29:42
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eddiecooper579 :
you forgot the gaslighting 😏
2026-09-25 22:42:56
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Barbie :
Ma’am almost spit my coffee out 🤣 mine is the one who took us to court then when he lost everytime he would say well we didn’t have to go to court we should have been able to work this out 🙄
2026-09-26 13:49:23
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G1450_그은 :
Don’t forget child maintenance is just another excuse to control you
2026-09-28 20:36:13
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cookie-dvsurvivor💜 :
Even with a court order you’re fucked. I have a custody order a child support order. He’s got a criminal do get out against him all of which say to leave me alone. Keep my name out of your mouth. Don’t say anything mean about me in front of our child and still, we just went to court on Wednesday because he told my daughter he wanted to hit me with a car.
2026-09-25 20:13:11
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Robin :
BRIEFLY dated a guy for 5 months, ended up pregnant with twins. He spent my WHOLE pregnancy stalking, harrassing, threatening, blackmailing and reaching out to everyone associated with me to damage my reputation and cause chaos. Gave birth premature because of the stress he put me through, all while playing victim she’d saying I’m keeping his kids from him. WHEN THEY HAD NOT BEEN BORN YET. Now he wants 50/50 of my INFANTS when he lives 2 hours away and truly thinks his behavior was and is him being a good dad. He hasn’t met them, hasn’t given me a dime, and he wants 50/50 because he doesn’t want to pay child support. Any advice is welcome 😭
2026-09-25 22:24:15
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sourdiesal 🌸 :
My ex tried to tell me I’m not allowed to date anyone until our child’s 18 because no other man is allowed to be a father figure. Anyways, I have full custody now.
2026-09-25 19:15:40
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Drea :
Mine refused to go to mediation or propose any kind of parenting plan, so I forked out the money for a lawyer. We spent months preparing for a trial, only to get there and he wanted to settle out of court, using my lawyer as a mediator 🙄
2026-09-25 22:50:53
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Gracie :
My bd doesn’t even have the word amicable in his vocabulary…
2026-09-26 21:49:14
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thesabbycat 😸 :
My ex narc had the audacity to say this to me after he lost custody rights because he had been arrested for possession of child 🌽.
2026-09-25 22:43:29
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christine :
Mine didn’t want to get a court post for child support he wanted to give me $100 every 2 weeks. Went to court and am getting over $600
2026-09-26 01:15:38
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