@coach.ryan0: They used to kiss you like they couldn’t get enough. Now you’re lucky to get a peck… unless they want something. Don’t let “that’s just how avoidants are” convince you to accept a relationship with no tenderness. #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalUnavailability #BreakupRecovery
Can confirm. They were fine with it during the honeymoon stage. None thereafter
2026-09-25 22:01:33
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brianjDCastro :
its so damaging though. the more they push you away and starve you, the more damage they do to the relationship. im in pretty deep atm
2026-09-26 02:39:13
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True_Love_40 :
Yep this is exactly what happened 😭 I can count the number of times in two years we kissed passionately.. after a few months it turned into pecking 🫠
2026-09-25 18:49:48
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Granddaddy Spuds :
Maybe they are NPCs
2026-09-25 20:08:27
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appparajacqs :
🤣 exactly this. My avoidant kissed me passionately a lot of the time in the first 6 months. Now. 2.5 years later, I get a kiss hello and a kiss goodbye; the only passionate kissing comes during sex (then I feel how much I’m desired). If I try and steal a kiss in the kitchen for example, sometimes, not all the time, he will pull away, pull a face, and say “what ya doing?” 🤣. But, I’ve learned to recognise the ways he shows me he loves me!!
2026-09-26 10:00:03
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lovinthesun :
I experienced this with my ex, he didn't want to cuddle either after awhile. His father was verbally abusive, his mother told me he didn't want kids. My ex deserved an award for the level of acting at the beginning of the relationship.
2026-09-25 18:01:06
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Vandia :
Mine said right up front that he found “French kissing” childish. 33 years later and I have not been kissed in all that time. It was such a red flag but I missed it completely. One of many.
2026-09-25 17:55:54
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Princess꧁🩵꧂Jasmine :
This is true … no passionate kissing in over 15 years
2026-09-26 15:22:03
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margaret_v77 :
He said he loved kissing me because it was so intestine
2026-09-28 13:31:56
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NavyVet❌ :
But that first time I kissed her was, honestly, the best I’ve ever had. Wish she could have kept the passion she had then.
2026-09-26 04:02:01
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Gnocchi the Whoodle :
Monsters
2026-09-26 12:17:28
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Anesa 🧿 :
why are they like this 😭
2026-09-26 19:36:25
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Elva | Web Designer :
What if that missing kiss has nothing to do with you and everything to do with their fear of closeness?
2026-09-25 18:30:38
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Coach Sam :
Not even during smacks😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
2026-09-25 17:54:24
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S :
I miss it.
2026-09-29 16:14:44
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мιzσвσια :
Threat
2026-09-25 19:00:52
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Генова Бистра :
soo true.
2026-09-25 22:01:22
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. :
Yep it’s now if I get a kiss from him it’s on the back of my shoulder or my head. Married for 9 years…this sucks and is so surreal for me 🥹
2026-10-04 12:37:37
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Susanna𝓢𝓱𝓪𝓶𝓪𝓷𝓲𝓬 ꍏꋪ꓄ꀤꌚ꓄ :
Funny enough, he gave me the most passionate kiss when he broke up with me and I asked him for one last kiss ...
2026-09-25 21:23:54
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Amanda Nicole :
Ugh 🥲
2026-09-26 03:00:08
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Alsabee123 :
So true
2026-09-28 05:20:58
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Funnygirl :
Sadly I experienced this.. I think it’s harmful.. I really wish these people wouldn’t date anyone. They need to stay home and leave other people alone.
2026-09-26 02:57:47
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