@lizzierebuilds: I have felt lazy lately. I’m not doing enough, I am missing deadlines, I don’t have it all figured out- but I really need to let go of the this thought process. Just because society does not feel a woman’s labor at home is worth anything doesn’t mean I need to view it at way. #CleanTok #invisiblelabor #cleaningmotivation #realistichome #satisfyingcleans

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a.henry.ope
Amanda Henry :
My husband always says if I died his entire life would fall a part. Which is nice to know he sees how much I do and make his life easier.
2026-09-25 19:31:48
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kerryann0125
user8338376370414 :
I saw a video of a man who was a professional, maybe a lawyer or something like that. And he said his wife was to stay at home mom and he was really grateful for her because she did all the things that he could not. He said if he figured it out, the cooking, the cleaning, running the errands, taking care of the kids, if he had to pay all those people it would’ve been $200-$300,000 a year! I worked in a hospital for 22 years and the last two years I have been to stay at home, mom. It is such a vital job! You were doing amazing, and I love to see your content every day!
2026-09-25 18:59:43
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mangomacolivealfredo
JustOneMoreCat :
You are such a wonderful writer. You really capture a feeling that is hard to put into words.
2026-09-25 19:07:40
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mjmeridian
MJ Meridian :
JUST 100 YEARS AGO… there was the lady of the house and a nanny /governance, cook and a housekeeper and a maid and a groundskeeper, etc. and now ONE WOMAN is expected to do all of this… AND… hold down a full-time job. There is no amount of healthcare or pills a women can take to undo this amount of stress and this is just off the top of my head. I’m not talking about managing schedules being a chauffeur, staying up all night, etc. oh… And managing all the finances! We need to have the workload removed from our shoulders and off our backs! There is NO WAY a man could do all of this. Therefore, we should not expect this from ourselves or from other women. I think you are doing an amazing job, mama! Keep up the good work!! 🤩
2026-09-25 19:18:50
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kylacofer
Kyla Cofer :
can you turn this dialogue into a poem? it's so meaningful. 🧡
2026-09-28 03:28:54
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flutterbye13
HeidiRenee🇨🇦 :
I have been there, and whit no money changes hands the investment in your children and family is so worth it. I'm sorry that the economy had made it so hard to flourish when you do. we had what's called the "baby bonus" here in Canada that helps the families financially, I don't know why other countries don't do this. you are doing an amazing job!
2026-09-26 11:54:00
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lch0202_
LCH0202 :
I try to always have a servants heart. I remind myself to be thankful for all the chores. This is what a prayed for as a young mom, to let my family be happy and healthy and that brings chores. There will be a time when my home is empty and my heart will be missing the chores. It’s hard as a working mom but it really does help to reframe your perspective
2026-09-29 15:17:19
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jenknepp719
Jen Knepp :
Very well said!
2026-09-28 17:08:08
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rtrkh2o
RTRKH2O :
Perfectly said!!!! THANK YOU!!! and you are soooo right! ❤️💪
2026-09-26 18:58:20
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thecarwilsons
erincarter67 :
The part about which kid doesn’t like seams on their socks hits so hard. Our job is all the nuances! All the little details !!!! And though they are minor they are major to the ones it means the most to!!!!! And to which most others don’t note or care to remember!!!! And it’s a lot
2026-09-28 04:41:01
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grandoakacres
grandoakacres :
Mother's do so many jobs! And it costs them them mental health and body. Its the biggest sacrifice a person can do. Housekeeper, House manager, Cook, Laundry mat, Mom, Nurse, Sex worker, Wife and More!
2026-09-26 23:42:39
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edibedi
EdiBedi :
the problem with cleaning is that you have to start all over again every single day. that is whats tyring. lots of woman stop it
2026-09-26 16:36:49
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sarahpearson268
sspearson5 :
I love your kitchen. it's nice and big [Twin hearts]
2026-09-25 20:03:52
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bethesunshinej
Jemima Pottle :
Damn straight! It’s work. Multiple pay cheques ands daily grind.
2026-09-25 19:01:09
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taylors_closets
taylors_closets :
I have been a full time and part time nanny for many years. Taking care of people’s homes, kids and running the show. It is most definitely labour and something I get paid to do. And sahm’s do 3x the work that I do because they never stop. It’s HARD. Lack of pay doesn’t make it not labour
2026-09-29 04:02:08
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michele8065
michele8065 :
It never ends. It never stays Done. That's hard to accept. lol
2026-09-25 20:52:08
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shellebean74
michelle :
Life is a labor in itself- godspeed on your journey hun- we're all on this journey, different paths- but definitely a destination. Be proud, you're figuring it out- most don't. ❤️
2026-09-25 20:40:04
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bethgarlandlynn
Beth Garland-Lynn :
You are AMAZING
2026-09-27 06:37:59
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princesskittycats
Amanda Darling :
You should get one of those robot mops/vacuums
2026-09-25 23:52:28
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azordhan
Azordhan :
you are amazing, a superhero, super mom, you got this!!!❤️
2026-09-25 19:05:49
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kate.molin_
katia Molinari :
there are some countries that pays stay at home mum's, because it's a job!!
2026-09-25 18:59:39
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e.jran
ER!N :
Girl, you’ve done more than most. You need to pat yourself on the back
2026-09-26 00:39:56
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lee_duhh
Lee-duh✨ :
I absolutely love how this was put into perspective❤️
2026-09-26 02:04:12
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mrs.e.vance
Elissa V. :
Lady! You are doing so much AND doing so well. Although some people think those things are true about mothers, but they are just flat out WRONG. I love watching your videos, and you motivate me to do more, even if it’s just a little, it’s more than I was doing before. Keep up the excellent work!
2026-09-25 19:10:20
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youreinalaundryroom
youreinalaundryroom :
Preach
2026-09-25 18:56:30
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