Dusty Thunder
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RavenflyArt🇨🇦 :
She is never going to find a therapist that she likes , nor will she ever leave that stuffed animal , because they get her attention.
2026-09-25 19:32:12
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🦇Tremeir🦇 :
Wishing relapse on someone immediately makes that woman the devil 😈
2026-09-25 21:32:25
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Lora :
He is embarrassed of the stuffed animal
2026-10-08 12:16:56
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block.me.bitch ᥫ᭡ :
I'm normally 100% in tune with Candy Thunders thoughts I think things the first time I don't agree with her. lol I think there's a deeper meaning to the stuffy. Too much to text, but to out it simply, she wants sympathy and compassion for something that happened in her life to traumatize her, but the wife doesn't want to award the friend that same sympathy for his traumatizing childhood, and the fact that- that trauma caused him to be an alcoholic... AND get clean and sober. I think the wife 100% is the problem.
2026-09-25 20:39:20
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stacythomas1978 :
honestly I don't see nothing wrong with it. there's many people that have lost a baby or had a miscarriage or can't have a baby and they walk around with baby dolls so you know what it is what it is if she wants to carry a stuffy that's her niece and she was close to her niece let her go
2026-10-08 13:22:25
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Lu :
She’s gotta get into therapy. This isn’t healthy behavior.
2026-09-25 19:07:35
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Shelly :
Why is OP still married to a person that cruel?
2026-09-25 19:06:28
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Toni :
she is holding onto the doll like she wants to hold her niece. it sounds like they were very close and this is what she has left of her niece. she will hold onto that doll for as long as she needs to. 2 months, 2 years, 2 decades...everybody is different. this is why she needs a therapist, specifically a trauma-based one. for anybody looking for a therapist in general, just go to psychologytoday.com sorry, but that's how I found my therapist.
2026-10-08 09:43:29
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Jennifer Jago :
Right off the bat. she does not believe in therapy. she does not believe that people can fix themselves. so that's going to be a massive uphill battle. overall, if she won't go into therapy you have to deal with the consequences of that as well
2026-09-25 19:24:47
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Cammy :
I'm wondering why is he even with her? I would never want to be in a relationship with someone that cruel
2026-09-25 19:43:24
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TinaAnne-Marie :
🤔 What my issue is, she can’t even be nice about someone trying to be better after alcoholism but everyone needs to accept her grief? The double standard is unfair and hubby is resenting her for it, NTAH BUUUUT he needs to leave before it gets any more toxic
2026-09-28 11:49:04
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Anita :
and that's such a mood killer for a wedding. like as soon as someone asks her why now they have to think about a dead 5 year old too and now everyone is crying
2026-09-25 20:32:42
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alanna larene 💕 :
I can’t comment on whether her carrying the stuffed animal with her everywhere is healthy, but I can certainly see why it wouldn’t be appropriate to bring to a wedding. If she’s going to carry it around with her, people are probably going to ask her about it—and I personally wouldn’t want someone talking about such a tragic event at my wedding because it’s supposed to be a happy event
2026-09-25 20:09:08
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Dana/ I need caffeine :
She was an AH the way she treated him about being an alcoholic even tho he's been sober for years, but she's hurt because he doesn't want to deal with her trauma on his wedding day, she needs to stay home and get a therapist for her trauma and her nasty attitude towards certain people.
2026-09-25 19:56:04
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lynbee🇿🇦🇳🇿🇦🇺 :
the stuffed toy is a prop to get attention
2026-09-26 16:09:07
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Joe Lembo :
NTA for the original question. however YTA for marrying her after she was awful to your friend like that
2026-09-26 12:41:01
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Terie_Gray :
Commenting as a mom who lost my child at 6months old. I have a teddybear with my son's ashes in it that my 4 living children and I rotate sleeping with. We leave the bear at home when we leave. I have a necklace with some of his ashes so he is always with me. I feel like there is so much more happening here that OP needs to really look at! What kind of horrible person wishes that another person would fail at their sobriety? She openly bullies the groom and has absolutely no business being at that wedding or that marriage.
2026-09-25 21:28:11
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Shinryodai :
She’s demanding the understanding and compassion she didn’t extend the friend.
2026-09-27 01:42:24
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ItsMeKellyT_ :
I can see the friend that’s getting married having an issue having the stuffy because she’s made comments about his negative coping mechanisms and how he’s dealt with trauma
2026-09-25 23:41:39
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Josephine 🇬🇧 :
I think also maybe some of the anger of op came from the fact only a few days before the wedding she had agreed not to take it. Then on the day off went agesnt that agreement and maybe op saw it being in her purse as a sign she was sneaking it past him.
2026-09-25 19:22:32
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MarthFador :
this entire situation sucks in so many different ways. Tbf, it wouldn't have gotten this far with me because I wouldn't want to be married to somebody who talks that way about someone trying their hardest to get sober, let alone someone who is a close friend of mine!
2026-09-25 20:48:30
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Milissa & Poppy :
If she needs a stuffed animal then she isn’t ready to go to social events.
2026-10-01 14:13:50
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KK Melton :
Why would you go somewhere that you know you are not wanted? Why would you put yourself through that? Especially in the mist of very fresh grief.
2026-09-25 21:31:17
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April Ormsby :
NTA. She doesn't need to go. She definitely needs therapy for more than just the stuffed animal.
2026-09-25 22:07:56
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Dannie the Great :
My dad was an addict and passed that way but when I meet recovering addicts, I tell them I am proud of them. You dont punish everyone because of the mistakes of another.
2026-09-26 16:08:51
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