oh my god hahaha i will be back with an update! this gave me the confidence boost i needed thank you!! 🩷
2026-09-25 19:38:33
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Doctor meep :
please do be prepared to be able to pay your share should it go awry. never leave yourself indebted to a man.
2026-09-25 19:36:17
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CalliopeFierce :
Girl I genuinely thought you had raw bacon in that container
2026-09-25 19:24:21
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baysway :
You are going to see if you like him, not if he likes you. I’m writing that down!!!
2026-09-25 19:21:18
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emV :
Wait. Thank you so much for how you started this “you are going to see if you like him, not if he likes you”. I NEEDED THIS.
2026-09-25 19:25:54
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Faith Mote :
I wait until the check comes and they go for it. Then I say, “I can split it with you if you want.” They decline and I say thank you for dinner/drinks. But at least they h the ink I was proper offering, idk if that’s good or bad.
2026-09-25 20:57:14
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Jennifer Bradshaw :
Someone like this so I can come back when it’s not glitching!
2026-09-25 19:20:51
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megan 🇨🇦 :
Molly pls come back after and tell us how it went!!
2026-09-25 19:31:00
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Bookishgirl49 :
Bestie I always paid for myself because men always expect something if they pay 🤮
2026-09-26 01:23:04
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Phoenix :
I’m literally going next week and I was scared he would notice how much weight I’ve put on since we started talking and we swapped pics …. Menopause hitting hard right now …. But now I’m going to see if I like him so it doesn’t even matter 🥰
2026-09-25 21:15:51
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sunshineyday85 :
If he’s not generous *and* well off enough to pay for a DRINK on the first date then he is not for you, ladies!! Idc what else he “brings to the table”. Generosity and financial security are bare minimum. I will die on this hill
2026-09-25 19:30:01
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esan :
Jezacat & The Angels: Angels Unite
So Jezacat has rallied the Angels together to support Molly who is going on her first date. Jez gave her perspective. Knowing the Angels, I'm sure Molly will get even more helpful suggestions. These are gifts. If the gift isn't for her then she doesn't need to use it. My suggestion to Molly is to take what helps and leave the rest.
Xoxo
2026-09-25 19:33:46
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erika✨🧞♀️🔮 :
YASSS JEZ YAAAASSS!! This gif is literally me hearing u full send it on not paying✨✨✨growth✨✨✨✨✨
2026-09-25 21:46:26
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Syyyd :
Good Luck Molly!!! Once the check is down, don’t move. As Jez said, don’t acknowledge the bill, don’t look at it! lol and once he puts his card down just say “thank you so much, I appreciate it”. And just flash a cutie girl smile.
2026-09-25 19:46:27
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Lish :
I haven't dated in years, but I think you just eased my nerves. The "you meet strangers everyday" flipped a switch for me.
2026-09-25 23:04:42
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Deci :
I paid for dinner when I was going on dates because I didn’t want men to think I owed them anything and that to show I was financially independent and didn’t need a man. Every woman has a different approach and that’s totally okay. The point is to find a person who is a fit for you. 🥰 Be safe Molly!
2026-09-25 20:41:25
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curls & chaos :
you paying for the first date sets the tone for the future
2026-09-26 12:53:31
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megmar90 :
The best advice is from the end—it’s so true! It’s an experience! And you’ve just gotta let it be what it is.
2026-09-25 19:29:21
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amwalker2024 :
Girl! You should be a dating coach!!!
2026-09-28 18:58:39
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els⁉️ :
do u still work as an attorney? curious bc i havent seen ur content in a min!
2026-09-25 20:51:09
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Alix Nelson :
First date is only figuring out if you want a second date!
2026-09-25 19:33:26
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ejsaun13 :
Sometimes I’ll go to the bathroom in the after dinner lull and it’s usually paid for when I return lol
2026-09-26 00:55:59
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alix elicia :
MOLLY!!! HOW WAS IT?!
2026-09-26 22:02:41
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Abbie :
Saving this for when I decide to start going on first dates again and need a pep talk 🥰
2026-09-26 03:47:59
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Baylee 🌈 :
me saving this video for later jahaha
2026-09-26 04:50:15
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