Great take! That whole conversation was so cringe to me and I’m not even queer, but I loathe fetishization period.
2026-09-26 00:20:31
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linz_wags :
People are not accessories, toys or experiments
2026-09-26 14:02:44
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Viva :
Who is she btw 😁
2026-09-26 12:38:46
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MsBroaster16 :
I got into it with somebody else in a comment about this video, and I was called misogynistic because I felt like what she stated is disrespectful to bisexual women who really want to be in a relationship with a woman. I stated it maybe I went too far by stating I don’t even want to call these women bisexual because it’s not fair to the women who actually want to date women. It is not fair for these type of women to look at women who are lesbian or bisexual as play things. It’s not OK.
2026-09-26 15:27:08
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Ash😇 :
One fire thing I read once is that many women placate to heteronormativity in this way bc they are also emotionally unavailable like a lot of men and being with a woman would expose that
2026-09-26 15:18:06
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Evelyn Ayime Shibari :
I feel too poor to date anyone. let alone an awesome woman.
2026-09-26 00:21:34
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Queen Motion 👑 :
It’s actually not fun
2026-09-26 13:00:08
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🫠🫠🫠 :
making similar realizations after reading bell hooks for the first time really made me reconsider my expectations in every single relationship I have
2026-09-26 12:59:15
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Demonic Kuuchie😈😈😈👻😼💪🏾 :
I aint gonna hold u, imma have to sit with this. interesting
2026-09-29 12:55:08
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Zy🫧🩷 :
They use women for funsies but get upset when men do the same, like ts is so sick
2026-09-26 20:52:15
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Miss Chris :
Her saying for fun, already made me roll my eyes. The way she said no like that, let me know her reasoning was going to be ridiculous anyway.
2026-09-26 17:03:42
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Santosu :
That lady made me sick to my stomach 😩
2026-09-26 12:30:33
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hehe :
this feels like a mini lecture on gender studies and i love it
2026-09-26 13:19:47
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locsandoptimism :
I hateeee when men say “girl” when they’re referring to grown women
2026-09-27 17:36:08
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GreyFitz :
Right because when he asks her if she has ever been with a woman exclusively and she says “no 🤢” like ??
2026-09-26 14:42:34
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Essie Gong-Henny :
This took me back to the Dayna Nuckolls’ words her writing, “learn to differentiate between quenching a desire and fulfilling a desire. To quench is to extinguish. To fulfill is to realize or complete, to make full. One is a means of escape, the other is immersion.”
2026-09-26 15:21:55
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Chanté :
This was a great analysis- thank you! I’m exhausted by straight women being platformed and boldly/loudly speaking on queerness.
2026-09-26 14:45:27
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nanaboo ^^ :
it’s soo strange like they be happy and almost jump to say yes but they wanna immediately clear it up like oh not like that tho
2026-09-26 14:38:19
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It's A.P. -- they/them :
Your breakdowns are always so multidimensional and thoughtful. Appreciate you/your work!!
2026-09-26 04:21:36
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Ruth :
The look of pure disgust like what?! Strange
2026-09-26 16:29:43
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Charlotte McKinley ⭐️💃🏽🎬🎭 :
love this analysis
2026-09-26 06:10:03
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sunnispeaksvegan :
U ate this tf up
2026-09-26 05:30:07
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Azriél Patricia - Nepo Baby :
Let em know!
2026-09-26 08:40:24
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Fay | Authenticity Matters :
This was a great take.
2026-09-28 21:24:10
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