Many of the problems adults have stems more from our childhood trainings than what we went through. We mostly repeat what has been programmed into us from our foundation. We also attract the type of men that we saw growing up regardless of what or how they did. This is the reason why many of us need to heal before we marry. Or that little girl inside us will be running the affairs of our lives.. I just noticed you are in Victoria and I just left there on Friday night. Too many broken and lonely women in that city. I met a few. I think you should consider having a live show one of these days there. Well done
2026-10-24 22:36:29
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Iam.sayrahj :
We all like her right
2026-10-02 04:37:12
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Tee story Vault :
We do too much cos of a man
2026-09-27 16:53:14
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Sika Dede Luxury1Z🎀🩷💞 :
Na scatter i scatter,i no kill person is soo me😅😂🤣🤭🫣
2026-10-24 23:13:23
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Esssentials by tee :
Omo after my divorce I don’t cook that much again oooo I do anything I want without looking for validation from a man
2026-09-26 07:18:08
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_angela_lawrence_akala :
I don’t impress my husband I cook what I crave for and we will eat it and if I don’t cook he will buy food simple as that and if the house is scatter we go clean am like that or I go leave am like that go my shop na marry I marry I no kpai anybody
2026-10-02 07:48:24
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CAKES IN LAGOS / IKOTUN :
I’m glad we women are now choosing ourselves over marriage!!!💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
2026-10-02 08:15:27
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AmaUnlocked🕊🗝💫🎷❤️🎶💤🌙✅️ :
yes dear, there's this peace that comes with being alone 🤏❤️
2026-09-26 09:58:40
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Auntiebebe :
Why does a woman’s life have to be male centered?
2026-10-05 04:45:24
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Blessed Child :
I love a clean house oo single or married
2026-10-04 20:40:05
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Benny 👗👚 :
If as a man you scatter your house and invite me over to test me Abi clean it I won’t do it and I won’t come again
2026-09-26 07:23:20
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laramieftm :
Im married but omo, i do everything at my pace o
2026-10-04 08:32:35
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Prettylassie1 :
After my divorce i dont clean after anybody. tried dating and my ex boyfriend leaves things everywhere especially dirty dishes. I did the kitchen part cause it gave me anxiety but the day I walked out I left his dirty pot on top the dinning talk with no plan of going back. he called me in the evening that he is coming with a guest and I told him ain't coming back.
2026-10-02 08:20:48
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May 29th :
I'm LAZYYYYY! and I love it!
2026-10-04 08:03:27
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31eliana- and- mom :
I’m not impressing any man 😏 i love clean house and i don’t want my daughter to get sick because of dirtiness
2026-10-04 10:13:40
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Loveth Chinecherem :
I enjoy your stories.. keep it up
2026-09-26 07:01:28
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Socialfly2026 :
Laziness saved me from a lot of nonsense, my husband told me one day that he knows I am not like all those industrious women that can clean and multitask 😂😂😂.
2026-10-01 11:43:06
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OMAH✨❤️ :
Emphasis on I don’t have to impress my own self
2026-10-02 06:21:23
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Lady Jamila :
I tell my daughters to learn to clean after themselves not for a wife or a man
2026-09-26 15:25:03
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E4MA🎀 :
The dresses are really cute
2026-09-26 07:39:33
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Amanda Nelson :
Is it true life story or u just love telling stories 😂
2026-09-26 07:15:28
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Roseline Emmanuel :
my dear just do you and rest. clean or no clean the house will be alright
2026-09-26 08:56:59
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Adaora :
It’s funny how we have different experiences. I’m cleaner when I’m the only one using a space, so obviously I was cleaner and more organized when I was single and living alone. Now in marriage I don’t even bother, I do it when I feel like, my husband dare not complain coz we are both working, if he wants a clean space he has hands.
2026-09-28 01:11:13
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Hannah Cofie :
It means you have set good systems in place and it’s working perfectly
2026-09-26 10:01:01
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