@tamsenfadal: Hating your friend’s partner is exhausting, but constantly bringing it up might actually do more harm than good. When you continually criticize their significant other, you risk: •Pushing your friend away •Giving their partner ammunition •Closing the line of communication Unless there is safety or abuse involved, focus your efforts on being a safe space. Don't make them feel stupid for loving someone you wouldn't choose. Always keep the door open so they know who to run to if they ever decide to leave ❤️ Would you keep quiet in this situation, or speak up? Drop your thoughts below 💬
And what if they get married and you watch her spark and excitement for life slowly die
2026-09-27 13:18:17
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Nana :
We tell each other every single time we don’t like the others SO but we accept their decisions, laugh about it when it ends and still remain the bestest of friends
2026-09-26 14:43:23
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Lmfield :
So true! Also love your eyeshadow and liner. :)
2026-09-26 15:45:18
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Vanexa :
I couldn't stand my friends husband and I never said anything. I ended up not liking her for other reasons.
2026-09-26 15:30:06
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Ruby Jelly Bean🪼 :
This is so true my best friends boyfriend grabbed my a$$ she believed him
2026-09-27 02:04:02
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Seeinhearts :
What about if she calls you every day to complain about him and he’s a drunk and almost caused her to lose custody of her kids? I never told her that I didn’t like him, I just told her the next time she should use a matchmaker and not an app and she got offended but she didn’t tell me to my face- she told a mutual friend (who also doesn’t like this guy). Anyway, I’m very glad that she stopped trauma dumping on me every day. I got my time back.
2026-09-26 16:33:09
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longislandladyshops :
Agree- just deal w it. They don’t have to be w that person.
2026-09-26 21:36:48
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Nora :
hmm I don’t know about this. feels like a breeding ground for resentment either way. perhaps this is more of a question whether we are compatible as friends because your partner is a major part of your life, and if I don’t like that person - then it’s a iffy situation.
2026-09-26 14:49:28
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