@jessicaos: Women don't test men they don't care about. They just leave those men. Ever notice how things got weird right after they got good? Great few months, then she's short with you, picking at things, bringing up a small thing from 6 weeks ago, going distant for a day for no reason you can name. And you thought: here we go, she's losing interest. I don't think so. The testing means she's invested enough to want to know what you're made of before she puts more in. She's checking whether the version of you she's been enjoying is the real one or the marketing. Most men either fold, apologise for things they didn't do, overexplain and get anxious, or explode and call it drama. Both tell her the calm man was a costume. If she ever said "I just wanted to see what you'd do" — that was a test, and you probably never knew it happened. #jessicaos #datingadviceformen #relationshipadvice #emotionalsafety #datingtips

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