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girl who fell beneath the sea :

From a diff pov: Ako naman I stopped hanging out with people who couldn’t respect boundaries and take a valid no as an answer. Kaya every time nag aaya na sila, I make up excuses (cause apparently, a simple “no” can never be enough for them) kasi drained na agad ako bago ko pa sila makita. I eventually hoped na sila na lang mapagod sa akin kasi I noticed na they’ve become a stressor. Pero there are other friends na I know I can hang out without feeling drained. Sometimes, it’s matter of knowing which people you can truly understand and connect with

bambi :

thankful i already have the right cof for me, my college friends and work friends turned into real friends ❤️lahat nag iinitiate and mafifeel mong gusto rin nila.

své :

hello po, to start off, i am well aware that i became like this a year ago prior and i can honestly say na sometimes, the reason is not like that at all. i experienced being in the same room as the people i refer to as my "friends", and yet, i feel genuinely alone, small. i feel out of place po na sa tuwing ako na nagsasalita, no one's listening, and feel like i don't belong, so i choose to just decline their invites, and choose to act like it does not feel uneasy. i haven't been showing up the moment i felt that, which was a year ago. i am not partly mad at them, nor upset. i just refuse to continuously let myself feel small and pushed around on a corner. i don't hate them, i can never do that when they made me feel happy too. and one of the reasons why i haven't been showing up is that i don't have enough money to spend para mag gala, i can't. i know they're just making memories that'll be unforgettable to cherish for a lifetime, pero ayun nga. i can't help but to feel that. so if they're reading this, you guys mean so much to me, but i don't wanna put myself in the same room as you guys. thank you for being part of my life, even if it was just a matter of time. perhaps i am just the problem. : )

em :

that’s why i stopped inviting people or initiating things first :/

zzzzzz :

bc wdym i need to offer something para lang makipag hangout sa'kin

Kittykat :

I so hate feeling privileged friends who just use you and if you do something they won’t like you’re the bad guy . I

￴wassup :

Ako nga ininvite a week ago pero nung mismong event na, di raw pala ako invited. 😅 tapos ngayon nagcchat kasi wala sya maaya

bautistaelicar :

try to go alone ☺️waiting people is like wasting time and energy you don't need to beg for them just go alone and u will find peace

Andy :

Can't repost but I was here

pancake :

“kaya mo naman pala eh, pero bakit sakin hirap na hirap ka” friends ver 😮‍💨

.... :

theyre probably just using u. being there for u only when its benefiting them

c.coffee :

silent repost

🍕 :

at don ko narealize na mas masaya nmn pala lumabas nag isa HAHAHA

toriii 🌼✨ :

the thing is, I will always make time.

k ౨ৎ :

especially na ikaw pa lagi mag initiate pero hanggang dun lang since they don't wanna pero they'll be like oh busy next week nalang pero pagdating ng week yun oh alaws like atleast lemme not expect smth and just say u don't wanna

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gusto ko lang naman sila makasama eh :/

gel🤍 :

tired of initiating first kaya naging "pagod na ako sa mga taong puro-" ako.

Nefeli Sky :

Ako naman, kahit alam kong hindi sila pwede. always akong nag iinvite para walang ma out of place. pero pag dating sakin, never akong inaya sa mga hang outs. ewan ko ba. wala na, nakainan ko na, napuntahan ko na mag isa. :)

♡♡♡ :

Let me share something lang po. Honestly, many times na ako sumasama sa mga gala with my friends but I realized na sa dami ng gala na yon, I always find myself na nao-OP sa lahat. I tried to communicate with them pero iba pa rin talaga yung trato nila sa'kin compared sa way na they treat each other. Buong buhay ko ata ganito lagi yung nae-encounter ko hahaha. So, no hate from that post. May iba't-ibang dahilan tayo kung bakit hindi tayo laging sumasama sa gala. Mahirap din sabihin yung totoong reason kung hindi rin naman sila open about my/our reasons. Plus, hindi masama ang mag-NO or lumayo. Minsan hindi na rin kailangan pang mag-explain para rin sa peace of mind. Kung gano'n lang din yung mararamdaman ko every time na may gala kami, I'd rather choose to be alone kaysa ma-out of place na naman Hahahaha

dickianna :

cinna.mon_berry :

Ako naman, I've been on both sides: the initiator and the 'inaaya.' May times na ako ang nag-aaya, but crickets or isa lang ang sasagot sa GC. Then the same group of friends, aayain lang ako sa big expense na gala like out-of-town. Pero kapag aya na malapit lang, sila-sila lang ang umaalis at hindi ako inaaya… knowing na mas makakasama ako kapag within the city lang. (1/2)

veil :

sya yung nag plano pero sya di nagising ng maaga for hike. yung effort to prepare everything laba and isang oras lang tulog pero I manage na magising. ayon sya sorry daw, next time nalang

ᵖˡˢ :

Mag solo na lang talaga

hootie fruitie :

sarap i cut off mga ganyang tao

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